[求助] 拒絕告白後的邀約
我是一個感受到他人好意就會開始拉開距離的女孩(好吧,也快27了)
也是第六感一直都很準的人,昨天一起出去吃飯的男性朋友用手機簡訊問
"妳有沒有男朋友",我就在想不會吧?不是要告白吧?之前一點跡象都沒有
結果當晚他就打我手機,這是他第一次打我手機(以前約都用FB約)
嚇的我不敢接電話,結果昨天深夜他就傳簡訊問我可不可以跟他交往
我這是第一次被告白,以前都會閃很快,只有這次閃不掉
(這次這個認識兩年只單獨出去吃過三次飯,也沒給他請過載過幫忙過)
只好跟他說不好意思,我目前沒有交男友的打算,也謝謝他的喜歡
他說他很久以前就喜歡我了,直到昨天他說他忍不住,說了後悔比沒說後悔好
所以他選擇用電話跟我告白,只是我沒接,他只好用簡訊
我拒絕他之後,他也說沒關係,他只是想讓我知道他喜歡我
希望我們可以再一起去聊天吃頓飯之類的
但是我拒絕了,在知道他的心情之後我不可能裝做沒事跟他出去
我覺得很尷尬很憋扭......加上我是一個知道對方對我有好意後會閃很遠的人
只能跟他講很抱歉。
結果他有點沒辦法接受,他說他只是不想讓他的心情藏在心中一輩子
所以不管我接不接受他都想說,結果沒想到連平常出去吃飯聊天都不行了
他說他現在後悔了,也說難不成告白失敗就註定要少一個朋友嗎?
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結果我跟朋友們訴苦,我竟然被說太冷血
說拒絕人就算了,還要跟對方絕交這真是太過分了...0_0!!
(其實我也沒要到絕交的地步,FB還會按讚,只是不想單獨出去而已)
如果對方都不怕尷尬約妳出去,妳就去啊,反正應該覺得尷尬的是他不是妳啊。
唉...搞得現在我是壞人一樣
如果是大家的話,我的處理方式該怎麼樣做會好一點呢?
謝謝大家。
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