[求助] 結婚該怎麼和父母談呢
當時想說要帶過的話語:等我畢業再說啦!
沒想到到了這個時候我還真的畢業了,我很感謝我可以遇到我身邊這個男人
一直的守候,一直的似玩笑非玩笑的說:妳有沒有要嫁給我?
總一直覺得他是開玩笑,但隨著我真的快畢業了,他的態度也越來越明確
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跟他在一起已經四年的時間,雖然大大小小的爭吵,分分合合,但是現在總歸是有想要定
下來的念頭
先說一下背景好了!
我,23y,準畢業生,什麼都沒有,哈哈!
他,28y,聯結車司機,有房有車,一個月約7萬左右。
最近是討論到要結婚的念頭了,兩個人都是願意步向這一步
只是現在問題來了,我也不大知道該怎麼解決才好
本來年初吵架和他分手,可是近期就又還是和好了(我們都很愛吵。可是吵完就覺得更
了解對方想法,哈哈)
和好時我就有試探了一下家母,結果就是被念了一頓......!
家父還為了這事情打來小小的碎念了我一下,雖然我都知道家父是出自關心
父母本來就不是挺喜歡他的,原因大概知道是因為學歷和工作
但是我都是可以理解的,但我想問的是有什麼方法可以好好的跟父母講這些事情?
可能父母或版友覺得我什麼都沒有就要嫁給他,可是我跟他的想法是先結婚也無妨
或許沒有充足結婚的錢,但是存到來也不知道要幾歲去了,不如就先愉快的結婚吧!
可以跟銀行借一筆,兩個人再一起努力還就好!
因為他的工作一直都是處在頗穩定的狀況下,而我喜歡做的東西也不一定是要出去上班,
在家也是可以做。
所以假使有小孩,即便我在家帶小孩,也是可以好好地度日子
總之,我覺得這個男人是個有規劃而且會行動的人,而且也非常的疼我,即使我怎麼發脾
氣,哈!
他是我心中認定可以攜手走一輩子的
那到底要怎麼和我父母談呢?
不知道有沒有人跟我一樣有這個困擾!
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