[寶寶] 小孩很黏阿嬤的處理方式?消失
我的女兒兩歲半了,從小孩一出生我們就住婆家,白天也是婆婆帶,所以小孩一直都很黏婆婆。由於跟先生工作時間的關係,我們平常確實蠻晚回到家,平常日跟小孩的相處時間老實說並不是很多...晚上小孩也是跟公婆睡(其實這真的滿感謝公婆的)而假日則會把小孩帶去娘家住,但主要照顧者就會變成媽媽我,週末過完後再跟著小孩回婆家
在這樣的過程中,小孩漸漸只要知道假日到了,要離開阿嬤到我娘家了,就會開始抗拒哭泣,死命黏著阿嬤不放 每次都要連哄帶騙帶走小孩。我們也想過不要回娘家,但總是想讓婆婆喘息一下,且也要有些時間是我們獨自跟小孩相處,不然就沒有盡到為人父母的責任了
現在,兩個月前我們夫妻買了房子搬出去了,小孩如我們所想完全不願意被我們接走,目前只得下班後一直待在婆家直到小孩跟他們去睡,我們再默默回新家.....只有假日一大早我哄小孩說帶你去玩,才能順勢帶走小孩,小孩在新家也是玩得很好很黏我們,但是只要一帶回婆家,晚上就是接不走,怎麼哄也沒用....公婆也認為小孩不要就別勉強他
可是我很想每天晚上都把小孩帶到我們自己的家 這個家是為小孩準備的,很想有個一家三口的生活
老公說小孩給阿嬤帶黏她是正常的,如果小孩不喜歡阿嬤反而忘恩負義 我也認同,但心裡老是空空的,請問有人可以分享我該怎麼做或怎麼調適呢?
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