[寶寶] 清明節會被要求小孩也要去掃墓嗎?消失
全職媽媽,有二寶,老大4歲老二2歲,
與公婆分開住不同縣市,但都住北部。
事情是這樣的,小孩剛出生的第一年清明節約11M就被婆婆要求帶去掃墓,而且我先生還
去值班無法前往,
我婆婆就問我能不能揹著下去南部掃墓,婆家的墓是墓地型的,其實我有點害怕帶去掃墓
後
,回來小孩會很難帶,所以請先生拒絕。
但老大現在也四歲了,婆婆也問了4年,我周遭的無論是媽媽朋友或是其他長輩都說小孩
不要去掃墓比較好。
請問大家也都有帶小小孩去掃墓嗎?
或者是小孩幾歲才能去掃墓呢?
謝謝
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※ 編輯: hisofia (1.163.122.184), 03/30/2018 22:51:05
※ 編輯: hisofia (1.163.122.184), 03/30/2018 22:53:07
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因為周遭有朋友的小孩帶去野外後開了天眼,之後朋友就有許多零異故事分享,至於祖先
的問題我們每年都有在家拜祖先說明原由希望祖先見諒,其實我比較擔心婆婆不滿...每
年
問我的壓力也很大。
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清明節是個迷信的節日,迷信這個世界的還有一個我們看不到的世界,懷念祖先的我們藉
由這天慎終追遠、飲水思源。
開天眼是我朋友的小孩,她很困擾,我是愚婦也怕有相同的困擾,如此而已,請這位鄉民
不用這麼激動。
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