被欺負後的教育消失
今天在遊戲場,我兩歲兒子在樓梯上(沒有擋路正在往上爬),莫名被其他小朋友故意戳眼
睛,兒子嚇到逃走,那位小朋友甚至還直追過去再戳了一次,幸好沒有嚴重傷害,真的是
反應不及,我先生立刻嚴正警告了那位孩子及家長,但也只得到了不痛不癢的道歉。
寫這篇文章其實內心是很沮喪的,為何會有如此充滿惡意的孩子,心疼自己兒子被無故
欺負,也反省了一下是否需要調整未來教育方式,有觀察到兒子雖然體型是90%以上,但
個性溫和動作也很小心,遇到情況時常會退縮忍讓,遊具上也常被比自己更矮小的孩子推
擠,甚至有次被推倒差點扭傷自己的腳。
但他才兩歲,不太會說完整句子(形容詞也不太會),該如何教育他直面衝突,或表達
不滿、生氣等情緒,遇到其他人的惡意,又該如何保護自己,不要一昧退讓呢?
先生說或許是我們太寵愛他,才會面對其他人的挑戰一下子就退縮,無法去面對,但我
覺得這是兩種不同的問題,個性偏向不好鬥、禮讓,難道真的在這社會注定會是個失敗者
被欺壓嗎?我覺得兒子有很美好善良的性格質地,也很珍惜這點,不希望他變成刺蝟般咄
咄逼人,該如何取得一種平衡?請有經驗的家長給我一點意見吧!謝謝大家。
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