[寶寶] 有二寶後的房間配置,初期應獨立嬰兒房嗎消失
家中格局是2間房,有一間大主臥(已放雙人床+嬰兒大床,還有走道空間)
和一間小房間(坪數小,只放得下一張單人床和衣櫃,充當倉庫,放雜物使用)
至於另外一間已經改成書房的無法改回就let it go了...
另外,短期內也沒辦法換房子啊...這房價,實在是無法負擔
由於大寶已經6歲,原本就已經預計嬰兒大床會睡不下,需要整理小房間讓他睡
但因為二寶突然來了,懷孕期間不敢做大幅移動,就拖到二寶出生了...
二寶畢竟是新生兒,很正常的晚上會哭哭,目前只能先跟夫妻倆窩在大床
可是明顯會干擾到先生、大寶睡眠,媽媽目前產假中,白天還可以補眠
現在房間配置問題,雖然本來想讓大寶自己睡一間,主臥的嬰兒大床讓給二寶睡
但考量大寶心理因素,想說在二寶睡眠穩定前是不是不動大寶的地位比較好
(怕大寶產生一種,爸媽有了新生兒之後,就把我趕去旁邊房間一人睡的想法)
然後昨天二寶半夜特別鬧,一點半起來瓶餵配方奶後,喝完一直恩恩嗨嗨
三點多開始大聲哭鬧,完全無法安撫,吵到四點半,連禮拜一要上班的爸爸
都起來安撫無用,吵到受不了,只好將芬蘭箱放置在小房間單人床上
確認環境安全的狀況,讓二寶獨自待2~3小時,夫妻及大寶能至少熟睡2~3小時
雖然真的擔心,但是累到受不了還是睡著了,一早也趕快起來餵奶看二寶
所以現在很猶豫,是否應該反過來,將單人床搬到主臥內給大寶睡(空間放得下)
然後將嬰兒大床搬到小房間,萬一我產假結束後回去上班,
若是又發生昨晚的狀況,至少有喘息機會,相較之下,是二大+大寶都可以睡得好!!!
可是又覺得好像有點狠心,畢竟把新生兒獨自放在一個房間內...
感覺媽媽非常無能,怎麼安撫都無用...哭哭
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本來也有這樣想過,可是產假結束後我也要上班,也需要睡眠T_T
然後大寶是女兒,愈來愈大了,留著跟爸爸睡不知道好不好...猶豫
※ 編輯: dir2007 (1.162.132.188), 03/12/2018 17:08:00
對了,本來有意讓保母先帶24小時,前幾個月
但是先生覺得與其讓別人放著哭,倒不如放自己家的獨立小房間
畢竟自家人至少不會去失控虐待二寶,頂多只是夫妻體力不濟
只好像昨晚那樣放著哭,但至少有餵奶有盡力安撫了...
在保母家的夜晚看不到...
※ 編輯: dir2007 (1.162.132.188), 03/12/2018 17:11:45
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有用包巾+穿著蝶形包巾,昨晚是安撫一整晚都沒用
夫妻都累翻了,不得已的狀況,只好安撫好先放小房間...
但是沒多久又傳來哭鬧聲,後續已不確定~因為已睡死
※ 編輯: dir2007 (1.162.132.188), 03/12/2018 17:19:38
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