[寶寶] 給不給恩典牌...消失
大寶快滿六個月,如果順利的話,希望明後年再拼個寶寶,所以我大寶買的東西,考慮二寶可以繼續用,會選好一點的,不過若別人有給我恩典牌,我也心存感激並欣然接受(當中也有朋友問我有沒有缺什麼,可以借或給我,我知道有第二胎打算的,我都感謝他們心意併婉拒,因為怕把東西用壞或用更舊)
前不久得知,我一個表妹懷孕了(我媽很疼她),但我們幾乎沒什麼聯絡,預產期在年中,我媽希望把我兒子目前不會用的東西給我表妹用,老實說我很抗拒,即使那些是別人給的恩典牌,如果二寶會用到的,我也不想給,且大寶給我媽24小時帶,我買的東西我媽都不太用,例如嬰兒床墊,一開始我帶的時候給小孩睡嬰兒車,後來給我媽帶,我媽讓小孩直接跟她睡,5千多塊的嬰兒床睡沒兩個月就沒用了,中間也有發生有些安撫玩具我兒子不買單,就要拿去送人的事件(我想說小孩都一陣一陣的,現在不愛,搞不好過幾天愛,而且我兒子玩具不到5個吧)
如果我確定不生了,我很熱意送給任何人恩典牌,只要那個人確實需要,但我現在要為了未知的二寶,跟我媽不愉快,硬是將東西先留著嗎?萬一沒二寶,這些東西一直留著,我大概會被我媽唸到死吧...
我不認為我東西借給我表妹還拿的回來,而且借人的其實就當作送了...
請問大家會給還不給?如果不給就直說留給二寶嗎?我媽是說留到那時候還能用嗎?(我覺得可以阿),我有朋友大寶七歲了,最近剛生二寶,連擠奶器也都沿用...
加上當初長輩有包禮的,我媽都要我加倍奉還,除了彌月,逢年還要名產伴手禮,雖然一個不貴,但好幾個也是一筆支出,更不用說對方小孩若生產也要還禮,真的是有種沒完沒了的感覺,當初長輩包的紅包我是都還給我媽了...
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