[寶寶] 店店吃 店店大的習俗消失
唉 之前po過婆媳的問題,結婚後本來相處不錯,有了寶寶卻越來越糟,我曾想過會不會
是我的問題,糟到連中秋節都沒糾吃飯了
說說這個點吧!各位聽過店店吃, 店店大這習俗嗎?
早在小嬸生女寶時,那時我們難孕,婆婆常會講孫女的事,我若要講什麼就會說不能講!
那時很玻璃心,隱約覺得婆婆因我們沒小孩,不懂帶孩子的眉角,我才會胡亂說話!
我的寶寶出生後,因餵奶問題常有心結
我兒子是混餵,因為我少奶,先餵母乳再餵配方奶(大餐120,寶寶食量大),但寶寶淺
胃常溢奶,拍嗝後,每兩個小時又要喝,諮詢過母乳協會,還去大醫院找衛教,得到答案
是:要加量 !看是增加吸母乳的時間還是增加配方奶量(每餐+10),然後增加拍嗝時間
,慢慢拉長到三小時
婆婆有一起聽大醫院的衛教,她還是認為要減少餵奶(她認為喝90就好,才不會溢),她
不跟我討論,只要輪到她餵奶時,就會剩30不餵(我+10,等於130了,她少餵,等於只喝
100)
情況就變的更慘,她教老公也這樣做,老公也是剩30,寶寶沒喝飽,兩小時就討奶,我幾
乎沒辦法休息,晚上變成奶蛭,2-3小時就醒來討母奶,我幾乎沒睡好,奶量變少,身體
變很糟
我知道有的人覺得要剩奶,才不會讓寶寶吸到空氣,這都是可以討論,頂多我加量30,再
來剩奶,問題是:婆婆不跟我討論,我在幾個月後才發現,原來是店店吃,店店大這習俗
,這不能明說
最近有個爆點
老公帶寶寶回去陪婆婆,我回去陪我媽,等我開車去接父子,婆婆拿香蕉餵寶寶,祖孫笑
的很開心,婆婆說,寶寶胃口越來越大了,可以吃半根香蕉
我接話:對阿,前陣子住院,營養師有來看,說寶寶現在要三餐奶三餐飯,多吃點才有抵
抗力
婆婆馬上變臉:你不要這樣說!店店就好!
回程我問老公,老公說是店店吃店大這習俗,不要在孩子面前討論吃食,這沒什麼
我說:婆婆最近都這樣對我,自己前一刻在討論寶寶多吃蕉,我只是接話就不行,我多講
了,她還會轉身就走,話她說都可以,我說就不行!
我跟你說婆媳問題,你也是對我生氣,或擺臉色給我看,你是覺得是我的問題嗎?我講什
麼都不好的感覺!
老公還是沒接話,這個中秋就沒糾家族一起吃飯,應該說,從我的寶寶出生後,幾乎很少
一起吃飯了,換個角度看,我應該覺得是好事,少了被唸的機會
中秋節下午,婆婆突然來,煮了魚湯說要給我和寶寶,當時我回家看我媽,聽老公轉述,
感覺婆婆似乎想問晚上要不要一起吃飯,看我老公沒說話,就先走了……天阿,我好像是
不孝媳了
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