[寶寶] 會誠實還是說謊呢?消失
想請問寶寶生病,長輩一直關切~媽咪們會怎麼應付長輩呢?
我的現況是全職媽小孩自己帶,夫妻自己住,一個禮拜回娘家吃晚飯三次
案例一:
寶寶打完預防針發燒(38.3),因為不是燒的太高,所以娘家長輩沒有要我餵小孩吃藥,只說要拿冰枕寶寶躺,因為是電話關心,所以我口頭答應說好,但實際沒有做,因為看了很多文章,發燒沒有不好!發燒~寶寶可以產生更多抗體對抗病毒!
案例二:
寶寶感冒咳嗽,一天大概咳個三~五次,沒有一直咳也沒有夜咳,因為是我先感冒傳染給寶寶,寶寶不是沒來由的感冒,所以我並沒有帶她去看醫生!
禮拜一跟長輩碰面,他們聽到寶寶咳嗽,要我帶寶寶去給醫生看!當下我沒有做任何反應!今天碰面,長輩問我有去看醫生了嗎?我說沒有!他們問我為什麼?我說看醫生只是開化痰止咳藥,那個只是舒緩,並不是治療她的感冒,她需要靠自己抵抗力復原,但長輩不認同,他們認為吃藥沒咳就是好了!
問題來了~
我想要告訴他們正確觀念~
但他們的想法就是認為生病就是要看醫生、吃藥!
因為我不認同~導致他們會覺得我都照書養,放任寶寶不舒服(沒明說,但意思大概是這樣)
所以我想請問各位媽咪~如果今天換作是妳~
妳們選擇下面那一種方式呢?
1、當然繼續灌輸他們正確觀念,直到成功為止。
2、繼續騙他們,每次都含糊帶過就好!傳統觀念,應該很難改。
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