[寶寶] 假日媽媽 VS 親帶媽媽
每當看到假日媽媽文章都很有感
我跟我妹同時期生小孩,她的五個月,我的三個月。
也很神奇我們一個是假日媽媽,一個不是
我妹妹就是所謂的「假日媽媽」,但她真的也別無選擇。當時我媽的遺願就是要她考上正
職老師才能結婚,在我媽走後一年她就考上正職老師,被分發到台東的一間鄉下小學開始
工作,然後跟交往多年的男友結婚。因為妹夫是高雄人(自家開小公司,無法換工作)所
以她開始當假日夫妻,婚後一年有了寶寶,她只請了產假就回學校工作,寶寶由婆婆家顧
,妹夫跟我妹有自己的家,所以妹夫下班會去婆婆家看寶寶然後跟我妹視訊,妹夫就回家
,寶寶留在婆婆家睡。
我問過為什麼不跟我一樣請育嬰,她說老師要三年才能請調(還要看那地方有沒有缺),
但請育嬰沒算年資,所以如果請,她要回去上班後兩年才能請調,她不想等那麼久,所以
選擇先上班把工作年資補滿。
她懷孕時就每個禮拜假日台東高雄火車這樣來回,生完寶寶也是這樣假日來回
雖然中間有請調機會,但很可惜沒成功
她真的很難過,她會羨慕我可以跟孩子每天相處,而且只要假日她回高雄,她一定自己24
小時照顧,要回學校上班才把小孩放婆婆家
雖然我現在請育嬰自己顧小孩,但我好心疼她
她沒請調成功時跟我說「結婚前就跟老公遠距離,結婚後也遠距離」
雖然有些假日媽媽是因為怕累或者經濟因素,但也有假日媽媽跟我妹妹一樣逼不得已,她
真的真的很不想當假日媽媽,但天知道老師有多難考(她考了4-5年有了)
雖然我是親帶媽媽,但我還是要跟所有跟我妹一樣有不可抗力因素的假日媽媽說辛苦了
我以後也要不斷告訴我小姪女,媽媽真的很愛她,哈哈哈
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