[抱怨] 幫寶寶訓練大便
之前寶寶一出生沒多久婆婆開始幫寶寶噓屎
一開始不太介意一直到某天發現幫寶寶噓完屎寶寶都會哭哭後開始有點留意
後來查了一下才知道太早訓練上廁所其實對寶寶不太好
於是後來婆婆要噓時有提到可能會造成寶寶壓力等不好的影響之類的
當時婆婆就有點不太開心
覺得我小題大作QQ
但為了寶寶好每次婆婆有要噓的意圖時
我還是都會再提醒制止
然後就是跟婆婆的拉鋸戰
婆婆都會一直說不會啦 我幫他噓他都沒怎樣呀
可明明噓完就哭哭了啊><
然後就會說寶寶哭是在告訴她:我大完了快幫我洗屁屁(什麼啦)
常常都弄到場面有點尷尬
久了以後婆婆雖然心裡不開心也就越來越少幫寶寶噓了
也可能應該是要換尿布我都馬上自己來
減少婆婆能接手幫寶寶噓的機會
而現在寶寶8M
最近我們發現她不太會認真大便
應該是說好像有點不會(?)
我先生就有點懷疑會不會是在寶寶小時候我們太早幫他噓
導致他現在不太會自主大便
而都很後悔當初察覺寶寶不太喜歡時
就應該堅持拒絕到底的
於是今天公婆又在幫寶寶噓的時候
我就提到先生說的
結果婆婆超不開心的
一直說以前都這樣噓也沒怎樣
不知道這種太早噓會有影響我們是去哪聽來的…
就一直默默沒回嘴被唸
長輩們常用的以前怎樣怎樣那套說詞不斷repeat轟炸
還順便唸我老公就是最難教的那個哈哈
而且這陣子婆婆平時也有在提寶寶現在夠大了
可以開始訓練他上廁所
當然我跟我先生覺得寶寶還是很小啊太急了啦常常敷衍帶過
覺得好煩
到底要怎麼樣不傷和氣溝通跟婉拒QQ
然後看寶寶現在大便有困難就覺得有點難過自責
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