[寶寶] 被保母退貨了,媽媽好傷心
產假結束前兩天就送了保母,
保母帶了兩天以後跟我說實在太愛哭了,
她還有帶一個兩歲的哥哥,
她無法帶我的女兒…
就這樣,在我上班前一天,我女兒被退貨了,
臨時再請了一天假去找托嬰中心,
其實,女兒從月中回來我就知道她很高需求,
另外也很敏感,
回到家裏我跟她適應了好幾天才漸漸了解她,
但還是會哭鬧,需要安撫,是個高需求寶寶。
剛回來的前幾天,我每天都在哭,
我不明白她為什麼一直哭鬧,
大寶不會這樣啊!
搞得我自己產後憂鬱,家裡天天上演吵架的戲碼,
保母退貨的時候,
我跟先生說:我請育嬰假好了
先生堅持不肯,因為他覺得我帶下去就是讓自己更憂鬱,家庭會失和。
那天我哭了一個晚上,
我很氣自己幫女兒選了一個嫌棄她的保母,
然後一個晚上都夢到我女兒在大哭,
(我女兒一個半月就睡過夜了)
昨天緊急去找了托嬰中心,
但在媽媽心中因為退貨產生了陰影,
會不會真的因為適應環境又很愛哭,
然後被托嬰中心老師虐待或是忽略不理,
我想到就整個好傷心跟焦慮…
我不明白,難道一個寶寶到新環境哭不正常嗎?
我也不明白,難道要寶寶兩天就適應環境嗎?
自以為選了一個最好的,卻在媽媽心裡留下無限的陰影
****
謝謝大家的鼓勵
媽媽在崩潰一個晚上以後已經轉念了,
朋友也說幸好她願意說出來,
硬帶不會比較好,
也許小女也不喜歡她,
我現在看到我女兒我都跟他說,
妳是我的天使寶貝…
另外,我的憂鬱傾向其實沒有很嚴重,
只是玻璃心了一點,
我睡一覺起來還是覺得一切會越來越好的,
各位媽媽都加油!
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