[寶寶] 與長輩應對養寵物的話術
家有一喵今年12歲,女兒一歲半
從備孕開始就經常聽到一些像是不該養貓
因為貓太陰所以你們生不出來
貓對小孩不好毛會吸到小孩肺裡面等等等
好像什麼鬼打牆的壞事全讓貓擔了orz
我們的回應也不外乎貓是孩子,是我們的長男
寵物對小孩抵抗力其實不是壞事
當時弓漿蟲驗完我還氣到把報告隨身攜帶XD
久了漸漸發現這些回應方式其實長輩們很不買單
不過就是一隻貓
你們這些晚輩很沒禮貌不願接受長輩們好心建議
長輩們對於寵物沒有什麼同理的想法在裡面
所以我改變了應對的內容
「我們家的貓很老了,不可能把他丟掉。」
「他都這麼老了,沒有人要啦,我們會好好照顧他。」
「他年紀換算成人類已經是老摳摳阿祖了,讓他輕鬆一點過。」
把重點放在『老了/年紀大了』這點上
似乎比較能引起長輩們的共鳴
老了就應該被遺棄嗎?不是的
寵物跟人都不應該被遺棄
改成這樣的回應方式後效果意外的不錯
對應的長輩年紀越大效果越好XD
不用跟長輩生氣覺得他們無法溝通
其實改變溝通的話術就能讓長輩們產生同理心的 :)
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