[寶寶] 大寶要兩歲了該順期自然帶還是嚴厲呢
如題!寶寶月底滿一歲11個月,全職帶他最近越帶越覺得自己怎麼帶的那麼糟,該補救還
是就順期自然慢慢改呢?希望大家能給我建議!
吃飯
寶寶不重吃,在六個月到一歲三個月間都只有8kg,為了讓他吃養成看手機的陋習,
現在體重約10.8不會自己吃,親餵只剩下午休及晚上睡前,且弟弟(3m)目前也在喝,因此
當我覺得被吸乾了時我就不給他喝。
現在剛買了餐桌,想試著藉由轉換吃飯環境戒掉手機和自己吃飯,今天第一天就卡關了,
想問大家:
1.即使都沒吃我晚上該維持親餵嗎?
2.要一次戒斷兩樣還是一樣一樣來呢?
3.還是從點心水果開始練習呢?
4.或是折衷,前半段媽媽寶寶都自己吃,30分後在餵他吃這樣好嗎?
常規及說話
a.寶寶基本上都聽得懂但就是不講,這樣我們要逼迫他說嗎?像是“叫媽媽就給你”這類
的。最近他開始會類似講話一樣一串話但沒有任何意思是要學說話了嗎?
b.我們叫寶寶,他會抬頭或者看一下但叫不來,除非那東西吸引他,請問這正常嗎?該嚴
肅點的教他爸媽在叫要過來這樣嗎?
唉,一直煩惱著這些,尤其吃飯方面,都已經要兩歲了卻還是很難出去外面吃飯,挫折感
好重...雖然先生希望我能帶到兩個一起上幼稚園再去上班,但看大寶我帶成這樣我自己
都看不下去了..是不是該提早去會比較好呢?
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b大也覺得應該先戒掉的是手機嗎QQ 餵的話是因為他我自己吃還是因為想讓他多吃點而餵
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寶寶能坐一小時吃飯 前提是要有手機囧 叫過來的話是我先生都叫不過來,我呼喚多半是
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我也是怕他會轉而不爽弟弟才持續餵,但若他吃的狀況很差我就是提早結束親餵不給他喝
,這樣子不知道好不好
※ 編輯: RainRueiShee (49.158.53.39), 02/13/2017 23:05:41
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謝謝大家的建議!寶寶通常要求我原諒或者安慰才會難得的叫媽,爸爸則是不叫不講但知
道爸爸是誰,看到爸爸也會很高興,前陣子聽到要睡覺會高興的一起說睡覺(睡比較難發
音比較不清楚,但覺很明顯的讓我們知道),我全職帶無後援小家庭住,婆家娘家都在南
部我們在北部,想讓他多點刺激不知道該怎麼做,一直跟他不停講話還是說有動作指令或
物品時在強調的講呢?
吃飯從直接戒手機的方式開始,但可以用餵的,等他適應沒有手機再來讓他自己吃這樣可
行嗎?
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