[閒聊]是不是當媽後比較敏感
我不知道這該不該稱為敏感,只是想知道是否有媽媽們和我有類似狀況
在大寶出生前我其實對婆家和老公沒什麼不滿,因為我知道和很多人
比起來我算是有個好婆家和好老公,但自從生了大寶後發生的一些
事讓我改變了這想法,尤其當牽扯到小孩的時候我的反應會激烈一些,
我覺得婆家就是來搶小孩的,甚至到後來我生出乾脆把大寶送去婆家
就當我沒生過大寶我只要二寶的這種想法,而隨著婆家在我懷二寶期間
常說大寶很可憐只能關在家裡陪我以及二寶的出生,這種想法出現的次
數越來越多
除了說大寶被關在家,每次要從婆家回來就會有人出聲叫大寶留婆家不
要跟我們回來,婆家人來家裡拜訪的時候也會叫大寶跟他們回去,婆婆
的表妹甚至在我面前說過把大寶給她帶回婆婆娘家住幾天我們再去接回來,諸如此類的很
多,更不用說一系列為了寵孫而和我的教養方式唱反
調的行為
我有向隊友說過這種情況,也提過想去看醫生
確認是否又是產後憂鬱,但隊友認為一切都是
我自己太敏感想太多,他覺得婆家人只是好意
要幫忙帶大寶玩而已,叫我別沒事自找煩惱,
真的是這樣嗎?當媽後真的會那麽敏感嗎?
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其實在他們確定大寶是男孫前就已經到處去說不幫忙帶小孩,叫我們
夫妻倆別把小孩帶回去,生出來確定是男孫後就一直要我們多帶回去,
那些要大寶留下之類的話從我沒懷二寶前講到現在二寶出生,雖然後
來我都當沒聽到,但是想到前後態度的差異就有點不舒服
教養唱反調真的讓我頭痛,他們的態度讓我覺得是故意和我唱反調,
例如大寶在餐廳奔跑玩遊戲被我出聲制止,婆家馬上有人出面帶著大寶
在餐廳跑來跑去玩捉迷藏,這也是我沒辦法單純把婆家的幫忙當好心的
原因之一,吃飯追餵、ㄧ直給零食或小孩要什麼買什麼這些我都看開了
,規矩方面的問題更嚴重啊!
或許像ch大說的,婆家沒有在尊重我這個當媽的吧!
※ 編輯: devilgirl (220.133.170.151), 02/12/2017 16:54:34
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