[寶寶] 願意讓小孩和親戚一起出門嗎?
小孩1y1m
還不會放手走路,平常出門坐推車沒多久就討抱
所以只好用揹巾、腰凳,家人輪流抱
現在會認人,願意給抱的人不多
傍晚,我姑姑要載弟妹們出門,我兒子哭著想跟
因為他們要到市區,我估計回來已經很晚了
而且心想同行的人都不太了解帶小孩的需求
我就婉拒了
我姑姑跟我兒子說
「沒辦法,你媽媽不讓你去」
「等你大一點,姑婆再帶你出去玩」
這還好
沒想到卻跟我說
「你不要這麼愛限制他」
「小孩也是獨立的個體,你應該尊重他的意願」
無言耶...
我聽完一直在思考
挑選什麼可以吃,規範什麼可以什麼不行
這樣是限制嗎?
有什麼不對嗎?
想不出個所以然,到現在都還睡不著...
我媽安慰我
也許姑姑沒有小孩,所以跟我們有不同的體悟
想要了解一下大家的看法
會放心讓小孩自己跟親戚出門嗎?
謝謝
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