[寶寶] 職場媽媽的玻璃心~寶寶知道我是媽媽嗎?
剛上班幾天有點難過,不知道跟該跟誰說...
第一胎,兒子2m多,算高需求,淺眠難睡、幾乎隨時要抱
上班後婆婆照顧,白天9點先生送去,晚上7點我接回。
婆婆真的很會帶小孩、又開明好溝通、會查育兒資料。我非常感激,寶寶白天吃玩睡,醒
來時間多,婆婆陪玩陪說話,幾乎抱哄搖到寶寶睡。
下班我接回,回家親餵,1-2個小時就洗澡準備睡覺了(8點睡),雖然跟他互動時間不多
,但我都會盡量跟他說話,唱歌給他聽。
但,我還是有小小玻璃心,不知道有什麼想法能比較釋懷
寶寶很像比較喜歡我婆婆的手勢,我有時接回來抱一下寶寶只要稍微掙札,婆婆就馬上接
手抱回去哄。媽媽傷心
婆婆很會逗玩、陪說話,有時傳白天兒子伊伊啊啊的影片,我都有點羨慕,寶寶晚上沒跟
我玩這麼久,說這麼多話。他會不會只認識媽媽的內內
。不認識媽媽的臉?
因為淺眠一定要抱,晚上我幾乎抱著他睡著,半夜驚醒就直接躺餵,感覺很甜蜜,但他跟
我相處幾乎都是閉眼睛...
我也盡量把握假日時間跟他相處了(假日全親餵)。但對2m的寶寶,這樣婆婆算是主要照
顧者嗎?媽媽會不會只是人肉奶嘴....? 長大一點呢?他知不知道媽媽是誰?媽媽的角
色是什麼?(還是我只能想辦法釋懷?)
還是很感激我有這麼好的後援,但如果可以我也想全職陪兒子長大,職場媽媽要捨棄陪伴
的時間,真的也是不得已啊
職場媽媽也會容易玻璃心嗎?還是我小題大作?
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謝謝大家分享,我覺得釋懷很多。今天婆婆又傳寶寶影片,上班偷偷看了好幾遍,窩心又
想念。自從當了媽媽就是這樣,很容易感動....
※ 編輯: mandy38 (101.13.149.243), 01/24/2017 17:28:55
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