[寶寶] 說了很糟的話,心情超差
可能是身心都過度疲累,居然對先生說出「累到想把他丟掉」然後我就從八點一路難過到
現在。
小孩現在4m多,正在找褓母,長得很好,也算好帶,只是對吃需求很大,到現在都還常常
兩個半到三個小時就要吃一次,小孩身高體重成長曲線都是85百分比,奶應該是夠的(都
親餵),也試過擠出來瓶餵看可以喝多少,結果只喝125就飽了,每次看別人的小孩四個
月就能一餐撐過四小時,晚上可以睡很久,就覺得好羨慕。也做過超多功課,研究如何拖
長點每餐間隔,狠心拖延卻又抵不過小孩哭到歇斯底里的樣子,只好馬上掏奶給他,所以
永遠的沒法達成讓自己輕鬆一點的生活。
先生對我非常好,只是他對於孩子始終呈現不知道該怎麼辦,然後就眼巴巴的看著我,因
為這樣,我內心也會不小心斷筋,但為了教會他還是把情緒全部吞下去,身邊朋友都沒人
生小孩,婆家娘家都遠,無法給予實質協助,無從訴苦或脫開孩子喘息一下,今天居然說
出想把孩子丟掉這種話,到現在都覺得內疚...
大家都是怎麼度過這種時刻呢?雖然知道孩子長大就會好,只是泡在看不到邊界的苦海,
如何讓自己心情好過一點?
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