[寶寶] 關於餵飯
兒子剛滿兩歲
從他一歲三個月起我就放手讓他自己吃飯
當然一開始還是一半自己吃一半餵
漸漸地可以自己吃完給的一整碗了
在他一歲半時就碰到了生二寶,坐月子
這一個月就由婆婆顧白天,晚上我負責陪睡
二寶滿月後我就全職帶孩子
這時我就發現,怎麼飯加菜一整碗卻吃不完了
半夜開始會起來討奶喝
正在疑惑時,就在和公婆某次閒聊中
婆婆:XX最近怎麼越來越瘦,也沒長高,你坐月子的那個月我把他餵得多胖啊
我:........呵呵..我也不知道耶
公公:自己吃都吃不多齁,營養會不會不夠
恩..我想我大概找到夜奶的原因了
基於求證,於是我實驗了兩天
一天不餵全程放手,一天有餵
結論就是一天夜奶,一天睡得很香甜
基於當下還有二寶剛滿月,夜奶的很頻繁(我親餵)
於是我回到一開始,剛開始讓他自己吃,剩下的我就餵完
到現在二寶都七個月了,我還是無法讓他自己吃完一整碗
因為現在的他會挑食了,只吃敢吃的,白飯都不怎麼碰
你說他不吃正餐也不是,因為他愛吃的又吃不少
但就是晚上會起來討奶
為了讓我自己好好地睡個3、4個小時(二寶還夜奶)
只好動手把白飯和青菜餵完
不過也有一部分原因是,每當他從餐椅上站起來說飽了
公婆都會說,還沒啦,沒吃幾口就飽了,是真的還假的
說真的,心理壓力還挺大的,好像孩子沒吃到他們認為的量會長不大
而且都是媽媽的問題
到現在他兩歲了,每當看到網路文章說他們的孩子都可以自己吃完
方法就是30分鐘內吃,吃不完收走,堅持不餵
如果不吃就餓,反正一餐不吃也不會怎麼樣
我都想,真的能這麼豁達嗎?
和公婆住以及大小寶同房
都讓我為了大寶半夜不要起來而動手餵
各位媽媽們,我該怎麼做呢?
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