[寶寶] 關於教養消失
前幾天朋友帶她小孩來家裡玩
她的小孩比我的小孩還小幾個月
我的小孩兩歲多,對方的小孩一歲多
然後小小孩就會有很老梗搶玩具的問題
朋友的小孩拿我小孩的玩具去玩
我小孩就去把玩具搶回來
在搶的過程中可能會有比較大的動作
對方小孩也委屈就會哭
我的處理方式是好好跟我的孩子說
說完以後我的小孩會再願意把玩具給對方
但是對方小孩就一直哭也不願意玩那個玩具了
搞到後來朋友也不開心覺得我放任孩子搶玩具
但是對方離開以後
我很想知道為什麼孩子要去搶玩具
我就問了孩子為什麼要這樣做?
孩子用會的詞彙告訴我
我猜孩子的意思是他覺得對方沒有詢問他可不可以玩,
所以他不給對方玩
老實說孩子他的說法我可以接受
但是對方媽媽只覺得我縱容孩子搶玩具
不教孩子分享
她覺得我應該要打我的小孩告訴他不行搶
搞到最後我也不是很開心
想請問各位媽媽會怎麼處理呢?
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※ 編輯: s321 (223.141.234.152), 11/13/2016 01:13:11
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