[生產] 剖腹比較安全?
比起詢問何種方式生產,其實這篇比較像是心情分享
從34週開始,醫生就一直告訴我說寶寶的頭偏大喔~
(34w頭直徑9.10---36w頭直徑9.52---37w頭直徑9.68)
在37w+4時寶寶的體重也破3300公克了(我已經都只吃三餐不吃點心了啊啊)
聽到頭直徑已經9.68時,我也很認真的詢問醫生是否建議剖腹產
但醫生說每個人狀況都不一樣,也有頭直徑破10的也生出來啊,你要對
自己有信心blabla...
到這邊我都覺得還好,反正寶寶自己會挑時間出來,生命總會自己找到出路
除非之後的產檢結果讓醫生建議我剖腹,那也完全ok
BUT 就是這個BUT
在我告知媽媽產檢結果後,她隔天一大早就打電話告訴我她整晚都睡不著之類的
然後又去問了神明以及擲筊,結果就是神明認為我剖腹是最好的
想當然爾,怎麼可能因為這樣就突然決定自願剖腹啊!
但媽媽一直強調神明算的很準,她也是為我好,自己的女兒要生小孩當然格外
緊張害怕
一開始我還很有耐性委婉告訴她,我相信醫生的判斷,如果醫生建議我剖腹
我沒有第二句話一定會採納醫生的建議,可以自然產就自然產,該剖腹就剖腹
但 她 聽 不 進 去
一個晚上連打三通電話給我,內容大致上包含:[反正你自己決定啦,之後如果怎麼
樣也是你自己要負責]、[你都不相信,神明真的很準]、[剖腹比較安全啦,你不要因為不
是非自願就想省錢]、[難道你要賭賭看嗎?!]、[那個誰誰誰也說頭大不好生]
(誰誰誰怎樣真的是超級大雷)
我相信每個媽媽在自己女兒要生小孩時必定是緊張、擔心
但用這樣的方式真的不好,我們都不是醫生,如果擲筊可以準確預測,那我想
所有婦產科都可以收起來了,信仰是拿來作為心靈支持的力量來源,而不是用來作為
生活的準則
講實在的,在最後待產的幾週,心情就已經很忐忑不安了,真的不需要額外的負面
情緒增加壓力
有板上媽媽也曾經遇過這樣的情況嗎?
有時候覺得,家人的擔心與擔憂才是壓力根本來源
最後祝孕媽咪們都順產,要對自己有信心!
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