[寶寶] 小小孩的撫摸,媽媽該如何應對才正確?
手機發文排版請見諒!
在媽寶版上,很常看到媽咪們小小抱怨,
長輩.親戚們接觸寶寶前不消毒洗手
或是帶寶寶出門,常被鄰居、陌生人突如其來的一摸
上列狀況就不列入討論了!
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女寶11m多,我很少帶她外出用餐!
上個星期假日,我帶她去百貨公司的鼎泰豐與朋友用餐!
近兩年,真的很少逛百貨公司,到了那邊,才發現原來有很多家長都會推嬰兒車來逛百貨,真的是各式各樣的豪華推車都看的到!人潮超多
假日的鼎泰豐,是不能電話訂位的,只能現場抽號碼牌候位
在現場等候時,旁邊擠滿了人群、很多小小孩,
女寶坐在推車上,但一直時不時的,會有不同的小小孩們會圍在推車旁!
來跟女寶玩,摸摸女寶的腳腳、手手、頭髮、奶嘴!
有些小小孩年紀真的很小(大約才一歲出頭),可能是剛會走的狀況,而且口水流不停,流到圍兜衣服全溼,有些還會摸摸地上、櫥窗、牆壁,有些甚至在咳嗽!
初次面臨的這種場面的我,其實內心很害怕,輕聲的跟小小孩問好,介紹推車上是女寶妹妹,一邊很想慢慢的把推車遠離他們,但身邊擠滿了人,我進退不得呀!若是我跟他們說,跟妹妹說說話就好,不要踫她,這樣也很奇怪吧?而且小小孩們聽的懂嗎?
我想請問各位媽咪們,遇到這種狀況,該如何應對才正確呢??或是怎樣的心態才正確呢?
是媽媽內心戲太多,反應過度嗎? 如果這樣就害怕的話,是不是我家女寶以後就沒朋友了?會害怕就別外出用餐
還是其實寶寶沒那麼脆弱?小小孩都是很乾淨的,不該阻止他們的交流?順便讓寶寶更新病毒碼!大人身上的細菌才比較多,媽媽放寬心
但是身為父母的我們,有時回到家想抱寶寶,自己都會馬上去換衣服洗手消毒!
想聽聽看媽咪們的經驗,謝謝!
ps我無意批評別人家的小小孩是什麼狀況,只是單純敘述當下的情況,勿戰!
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