[母乳] 母乳媽媽聽到配方奶相關話題總是特別暴躁
寶寶目前已經九個多月了,
從剛生完兩三天,被月嫂說我奶還沒來,
叫我要去買配方奶,先把寶寶餵飽了再說,
寶寶一個多月的時候,婆婆來拜訪時,
我說寶寶看起來很"ㄏㄤˋ玲",
婆婆馬上回我說:「又不是喝配方奶,怎麼會"ㄏㄤˋ玲"」
一直到六個月之後,寶寶體重從50%降到15%,
老公認為補救的措施是讓寶寶喝點配方奶補營養.
還有一次婆婆知道我還在餵母奶,在電話那頭大聲說:「蛤?!怎麼還在喝母乳呀?」
這幾個月來,每每聽到這類的話,
我就會覺得自己沒睡飽努力餵母乳的辛苦完全被人踐踏,
老公要是不小心提到母乳vs配方奶話題,我反應都會有一點太大,
昨晚,我看到一篇文章提到母乳媽媽吃了太多反式脂肪,母乳反而會比配方奶更差,
我很認同這個觀點,也擔心自己吃太多零食(零食的反式脂肪很多),所以就分享給老公.
但是我不知道老公怎麼回事,回我說:
「也沒必要污名化配方奶吧,
"比配方奶更差"這句話是在表達配方奶有多差嗎?
難道世上這麼多喝配方奶的都是笨蛋嗎?」
我一聽不知道為什麼,也整個人火超大,
因為這句話跟本沒有污名化配方奶.
老公覺得我分享的文章故意貶低配方奶,讓我超無言的!
心想如果他覺得配方奶沒那麼差,那可以只讓寶寶喝配方奶呀!!
我也不用一直睡不飽,吃不好,還背著母奶沒營養的罪名.
我自己也有在餵配方奶,壓根不會覺得配方奶有多差,
對我來說只要寶寶有長大都好,但是聽到這些話總會玻璃心覺得辛苦一點都不值,
九個多月來,連寶寶都在睡的時候,我也還是要起床擠奶,很煩 \../
版上母乳媽媽,會不會聽到這類的話題,特別容易火大?
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其實老公對我很好,一直以來也是很支持餵母乳,
我也不知道他為什麼突然說了這些話,
是不是我太容易動怒了?
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※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/BabyMother/M.1473704945.A.141.html
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其實為了消除營養不良的疑慮,就算母乳冰棒吃不完要丟掉,
我還是有讓寶寶一天喝至少一餐配方奶,我沒有那麼想
拿配方奶來比較,但是對我來說配方奶就是一個替代方
案.只是很不平的是這個世代的母乳媽媽,為什麼老是
被一個替代方案搞到要背負營養不良的罪名.
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這就是典型說者無意聽者有心的實例 XD
說的人想表達的心情跟聽的人理解的點完全不一樣
我看了文章跟老公分享我的心情是:
「我好像吃太多零食了,其實對寶寶智力發展不好。」
老公聽了把重點放在:「文章太過偏頗,有意無意貶低配方奶。」
我聽了老公的話,把重點放在:
「本來說好餵母乳,現在說配方奶也好。早知道就不要每天熬夜擠奶了。」
我跟老公聊天的習慣是不需要話中帶話,沒錯字裡行間滿滿的抱怨,
因為我最後也把重點放錯,誤解老公的話,或許他只是想說文章太偏頗。
另外我也不太需要一直提醒母乳比較好,我老公是聰明人,他自己會去找資料,
母乳好不好大家各自有想法,不是我隨便分享個什麼他就會信的。
※ 編輯: JocelynQQ (172.0.152.157), 09/13/2016 23:52:15
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