[寶寶] 長輩觀念...消失
唉...覺得婆婆的觀念很難糾正,從懷孕時就知道了,沒想到真正的爆炸點是在生完小孩
後
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第一件事:目前主要照顧者是我,只是有時候要外出會請婆婆幫忙看一下,第一天就有爭
執點了,當時請婆婆上樓顧一下小孩,她看一看就說小孩睡著了喔!那我先下樓了,晚點
我再上樓巡一下就好,跟她說這樣不好啦!如果小孩哭了妳哪聽的到,之後婆婆就爆炸了
,一直說以前我也是這樣養大小孩的啊,都不用做事了喔!可以短暫近距離離開啊,妳要
下樓去我哪放心啊
第二件事:小孩熱到臉上長疹子,跟婆婆說晚上我要去買藥膏,不含類固醇,結果他連打
2通房間的電話,第一次說:上次肚子長水泡的藥膏不能擦嗎?第二次說:那我的眼藥膏
可以給他擦吧!這應該不含類固醇吧!呃...
第三件事:因為我不喜歡喝酒,加上餵母乳,所以有特別跟婆婆說麻油雞湯不要放米酒,
沒想到有一次她竟然偷偷加,我當時喝一口就發現了,她竟然回我,加這麼少妳也會發現
喔!然後又說以前怎樣的,坐月子要是像妳這樣喔!店家都要倒了
唉...好多事情講不完,連我們買6支奶瓶也在那邊以前論,說哪有人像我們這樣買這麼多
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哪有這樣的事啦
最後決定不再給婆婆顧小孩的關鍵是在昨天,我昨天剛好看到她抱小孩的方式竟然是抓
腋下(小孩未滿兩個月),告知婆婆別用這種方式抱,她又生氣了!說你們很囉嗦耶,我
以前也是這樣帶大你們的,我怎麼不會帶小孩,你們問題很多耶!
結果換我也爆炸了,我們決定以後連一分鐘都不給婆婆顧了,她就負責看看孫子就好,只
是她很愛碎碎念我們怎麼不給她帶,我想我已經黑的發亮,不過我不在乎XD
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※ 編輯: to55821 (123.195.159.20), 09/11/2016 19:04:04
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因為當時才剛滿月而已,加上剛喝完奶,小孩很容易溢奶,而且婆婆要去一樓,小孩在四
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但是我覺得這種事只會多不會少耶
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因為小孩的臉已經在留湯了,不太敢亂擦啊!婆婆主要是不想我們花錢
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有先給醫生看了,他說可以先擦擦看,只是會好很慢
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原來不是只有我婆婆這樣XD
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