[寶寶] 太黏媽媽不好喔!
看板BabyMother作者a8795peggy (Aphro,甚至是他們提出? )時間7年前 (2016/08/16 22:15)推噓35(35推 0噓 63→)留言98則, 40人參與討論串1/1
八個月大的兒子晚上親餵,喜歡玩著另一邊的頭頭一邊喝奶,吃飽喝足後,搭著我的肩就
睡著了。這是屬於我們的親暱感。
八個月大的兒子正值長牙期,再加上分離焦慮的開始,已經歡必霸好幾天,任何人哄都開
心不久。帶回娘家才一天,弟弟就說他太黏你,這樣好嗎?我回他,因為他長牙不舒服比
較歡。
帶回婆家餵完兒子晚餐,我洗著碗筷,兒子坐在新租的圍欄裡鬧,家人也坐在圍欄裡努力
安撫,我猜是牙齒不舒服,又沒看過圍欄才哭。我嘴上努力安撫,手裡加快速度,被兒子
哭煩的家人忽然冒出幾句話:「黏媽媽不好喔!」、「這麼黏媽媽怎麼辦?」、「媽媽在
忙,其他人不行嗎?」
我心裡聽得難受,洗完碗坐進圍欄安撫兒子,兒子依然歡必霸,想起有冷凍固齒器,連忙
給他,他終於露出微笑。
親餵以來,家人曾覺得不妥,怕小孩太黏媽媽,我總是笑笑地說,小孩本來就該黏媽媽,
不管親不親餵。一路到了小孩八個月,頭好壯壯,遇見每個人總是開心微笑,看熟了臉就
願意給抱,哪怕是第一次見面的人。
現在因為小孩長牙、分離焦慮,已經讓我安撫地分身乏術,連番聽見親近的人murmur,之
前小孩的乖巧,媽媽的努力似乎瞬間付諸東流,我心情真的好差。
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我爸倒是很會跟小孩玩,歡必霸的小孩到他手上也笑顏逐開。
我喜歡小孩黏我,這種親暱感難以取代,不希望長輩依自己觀點認為不好,但是長輩比小
孩更難控制
※ 編輯: a8795peggy (42.73.10.252), 08/16/2016 22:45:08
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對啊,我也覺得我有點玻璃心,只是一天被講好幾次,有點招架不住(苦笑)
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我好能體會,但我兒子只有長牙這幾天才黏成這樣,除了想睡之外,其他時候都可以玩得
開心。
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