[月子] 有給娘家媽媽做月子的嗎?
請問大家,有沒有人是住婆家,但是做月子時,是娘家媽媽來婆家幫妳做月子的?
朋友目前與老公討論是打算這樣做,然後她媽媽要求我朋友必須去跟婆婆說...
叫婆婆要打給她,說要麻煩她來幫她女兒做月子!
朋友家是分樓層,每層樓都有廚房、客廳、主臥,各自有各自的生活空間!
她還沒提出,因為她跟婆婆關係不好,她老公說他去講,但婆婆太忙,每次都遇不到她,
遇到時又沒機會講!
然後她婆婆又一直說要她去月子中心,或者請月婆,提到要娘家媽媽來做,一直以娘家媽
媽需要工作為藉口,但後面又說隨便!
她覺得婆婆似乎不太願意!所以不知道該怎麼做!想請教大家意見!
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她還有兩個要顧,她去月子中心,婆婆一定會說要顧!
可是她婆婆那種的...沒人敢給她顧,她老公自己都不敢!曾經她才顧不到幾小時,兒子
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然後她老公是覺得分樓層,婆婆早早出去,晚晚回來,不會一直見到面!
而且孩子要上課,去月子中心很難照顧!
※ 編輯: pattyg (101.8.50.91), 08/16/2016 07:43:12
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還有兩個孩子要顧,連老公都不敢把孩子給他媽媽顧!
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不知道耶,她說她娘家媽媽是說這種一種禮俗,尊重她也尊重她婆婆!
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這個方案是因為,老公無法接孩子下課,婆婆都到處跑,無法配合孩子時間!
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婆婆跟老公都不願意!
※ 編輯: pattyg (101.8.50.91), 08/16/2016 07:51:50
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她婆婆其實很不愛外人,月嫂應該隨口講的!
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所以才想叫娘家媽媽來做,娘家媽媽會去幫忙載孩子回家!很近,所以不會不方便!
※ 編輯: pattyg (101.8.50.91), 08/16/2016 07:58:08
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她婆婆大概會翻臉,而且老大上課地點跟她娘家差太遠,她娘應該會瘋掉吧!
她說掙扎很久,才決定這樣做的!
※ 編輯: pattyg (101.8.50.91), 08/16/2016 08:05:56
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