[寶寶] 保姆要接第三個小孩
我的保姆是同事介紹的
因為有認識的人非常好的經驗
因此我也不曾面試過其他保姆就決定給她帶了
寶寶目前8個多月
帶的不錯 至少沒讓我擔心過
現在保姆手上除了我兒子還有一個兩歲多的姐姐
當初談的時候 是沒有明確講到說我只能接受帶2個
雖然我有提到覺得2個差不多
然後在這之前保姆也幾乎都是帶2個
最近保姆說有人拜託她幫忙再接
雖然她說有推辭但對方一直拜託
也不要她介紹的其他人 問我介不介意
言下之意其實就是她想接了
坦白說我介意 我覺得三個真的有點多
我兒子不算好帶 再來一個肯定會多少被冷落
而且我身邊也不常聽到帶三個的(我在高雄)
我老公說 寶寶比較大了 現在婆婆也願意幫忙
如果保姆真的要接第三個那我們就給婆婆帶
因為我們工作忙 婆婆現在假日偶爾會幫忙帶
雖然是沒出過什麼大問題
可是說真的也不是真的有到讓我完全放心的狀況
例如一次嚴重的念珠菌尿布疹
或是連續帶個幾天寶寶就比較消瘦等等
而且目前都只是短期
我也擔心長期老人家還是會太累吃不消
特別婆婆又是愛硬撐的那種類型...
找新的保姆也有風險 也要磨合 又不知道帶的如何
所以目前很猶豫
是要繼續給帶的很不錯的保姆繼續帶
接受即使沒什麼大問題但寶寶多少一定會受冷落的狀況?
還是要再物色新保姆希望運氣好可以再找到不錯的?
想請問各位媽媽的想法...
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這樣講也是啦 可能因為我是比較親密派的
寶寶出生到現在我幾乎是一哭就抱XD
的確寶寶很黏人不太能自己玩
這樣好像也是一種訓練...
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※ 編輯: laana (219.69.111.151), 08/13/2016 23:48:04
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