[教育] 推翻舊思想,從我這代做起
不曉得有沒有媽媽跟我一樣,
寶寶還很小就開始煩惱他的教育方針
尤其當看過/體驗過很多老傳統後,
更覺得自己不想讓孩子孫子仍繼續被這樣教育
因此上一代仍然遵守的傳統,
我想努力停止在我這一代
我會告訴孩子
沒有什麼長孫不長孫、長子不長子
更沒有男生要負責父母,女生嫁出去就別人家的人
遇到什麼事情,每個孩子都必須共同討論/處理
不認同所謂長子長孫的遺產就是比較多
更沒有因此就要負擔所謂父母的老病及祖先
逢年過節祭祀拜拜問題
(難道不是長字輩就可以兩手一攤嗎?)
若有心有時間,這是件自動自發也不被需要約束的事。
我會告訴兒子,當你長大了就要獨立,
要成為有能力自己成立一個家的男人。
我也要告訴自己,當孩子長大了就要學會放手。
(還有很多觀念一下子還沒想到)
雖然未來不一定孩子成為什麼樣的人
不過我決定給孩子這樣的教育
有媽媽們也贊同的嗎?
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