[懷孕] 高齡第2胎心情複雜
大寶已經4y了,這幾年來,雖持續逛媽寶版,不過對於新生兒,感覺是越來越遠了…
孩子已經有自己想法了,也覺越來越輕鬆。雖然這幾年心裡一直有想生第2胎,但因懷大
寶前自己本身就是多囊患者且當時生大寶時我已是算高齡,對於生老二,我一直以來抱持
著順其自然的態度,因為生老大時,光中、西醫調養,就快1年吧…,那當中,西醫檢查
確認子宮正常,中醫連針灸、水藥我都試過,第1胎如何得來不易…,這當中嘗試過的媽
咪,就知道箇中甘苦。
之前休息一年,在家待業,其中面試了近10家公司,就在最近在新公司即將滿3個
月時,發現自己已懷孕約2個月了…,真的心情很複雜!我現在已39y了,好不容易,又
有了2寶,下班之餘,常已累翻…,大寶要顧,又是高齡懷孕,只要覺一睡不好,隔天上
班,整個一直度咕…,而且我還不知如何跟主管開口…,畢竟,家裡即將多一位成員了,
往後經濟壓力勢必會比較大些…而現階段,先生的薪水,若光支付我與大寶,在我沒上班
的情況下,是打平的,無法存下太多,需加上我工作,會比較有餘裕,而我先生也不想靠
公婆,我們也是在外租屋,但真的有時覺如果有金援,會好上許多,或許會被噓吧,
但真的經濟會讓人煩。
不過主要想問問大家,孩子年齡差5y,還玩得起來吧!?我自覺已盡力了!在生育
這部分,無多餘的金錢做人工,一切順其自然,天知道獨生女的我,多希望大寶身旁有個
二寶可以相陪,希望二寶一切順利、身體健康,在往後大寶與二寶可以彼此相互扶持,
我是因大寶原因才想生二寶的,也因自己本身經歷,知道凡事一個人來,有多孤單…,
抒發一下心情,若大家有建議,也請提供予我,謝謝。
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