[寶寶] 請育嬰假住婆家的媽媽有煮三餐嗎?
謝謝各位媽媽的意見,已經決定維持目前現況即可
現在在家都是婆婆煮飯我洗碗或是切水果
偶爾做些簡單家事,掃地之類的(衣服是分開洗的)
至於煮飯這件事真的是我做了婆婆就沒事做了
一開始都有問我需要幫忙甚麼,但婆婆都說她已經做好了
或是正要幫忙的時候小孩哭了,婆婆就說去顧小孩就好
小孩的事情其實我也不喜歡讓別人幫忙,所以我都把小孩顧好,公婆玩孫就好了
畢竟我請育嬰假的目的就是要顧小孩,而且小孩是我要生的,別人沒義務幫我顧
謝謝大家的意見
以下正文
寶寶目前八個月,白天小睡的時間越來越短,常常事情還沒做完寶寶就醒了
現在育嬰假住婆家只做簡單的家事,準備副食品、洗我跟我老公的衣服、偶爾掃掃地,因為婆婆當家庭主婦就負責煮三餐
但我媽會一直唸我說現在是別人的媳婦,家事應該是妳要做,哪有婆婆煮給媳婦吃的道理,還說以前都可以一邊顧小孩一邊煮飯還可以一邊工作……之類的
我承認我可以做,只是不想做,關於煮飯這件事我覺得我又不是很瞭解其他人的口味,而且之後要上班也沒時間,最重要的是不喜歡做事的時候被人指導
請問我的心態有問題嗎?要怎麼改進比較好啊?
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