[寶寶] 當媽媽的提醒ㄧ下有錯嗎
大寶現在3y3m,二寶5m,我們夫妻和小孩大部分時間都在大陸,但是大寶對不熟悉的人會很緊張,如果剛見到面太過熱情,他就很排斥跟對方互動。
每次要回台灣時,我都會提醒娘家跟公婆家要注意的小細節,例如現在腸病毒流行期,大家要記得洗手再抱小孩(因為公婆家的人都不洗手,曾經讓大寶住過兩次院),也會提醒公婆跟大小姑剛看到大寶時不要ㄧ下子就要抱他,他會害怕(大姑之前抱大寶,大寶緊張到全身緊繃,ㄧ直說要下來,我大姑不讓他下來)。
昨天要回我公婆家時,大寶就很緊張焦慮,哭著說我不要ㄧ回去就被大家抱,所以我又再一次提醒他們,結果我大姑就傳訊息說叫我不要每次回台灣就刻意提醒他們這些事,他們看了不舒服。他們很少時間可以和大寶相處,當然需要更多的時間來跟他適應,還說如果我懂得愛屋及烏就不會來提醒他們這些。還說我公婆年紀也大了,應該要常回來讓他們抱孫子。
我覺得看了很不舒服,我當然也希望大寶能和大家互動,所以才善意的提醒他們不要太急,我會從旁協助,沒想到我大姑會這麼說。
然後剛我公公又跟我說叫我把二寶留下來給他們顧,我說:不行,我會想寶寶
我公公說:你已經有ㄧ個孩子了
我說:孩子是要跟著媽媽的
我公公說:你已經有一個了,這個留下來跟我們培養感情
我真的很傻眼,不管生幾個都是我的孩子好嗎?且他們以前也有屬於他們自己的孩子,為什麼要把我跟寶寶分開
當初我生小孩,老公在國外,娘家幫我顧大寶,我公婆說他們過幾天要投票(總統選舉)所以不從北部南下了,我就自己一個人去生孩子,現在為什麼要來分開我們母女
心情真的很鬱悶~
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