[寶寶] 傳承老大的衣物~
如果遇到大寶.二寶是同性,應該會對衣服和鞋子部分可以接著穿,
多多少少省一點費用是頗正常心態
但我自己上有2個哥哥,家裡只有我1個女生
從小的記憶,就是男生頭+穿哥哥的衣服
但有特殊場合(婚宴或正式點),還是會有那1.2件洋裝穿
從小剪男生頭,是因為我媽說,留長頭髮她覺得麻煩
接哥哥衣服,當然就是省錢~
或多或少,覺得這樣長久以來,雖然是女生身體,但覺得自己跟男生無異
完全沒女生樣~
一直到了高中,才默默有自己是女生的自覺,自己留了長髮
但衣櫥打開來,清一色就是深色系T~
而且都是一直接收哥哥舊的東西(快譯通.字典等~)
然後哥哥一直說服媽媽買新的(功能有多好那種!!!)
所以從小也不會爭的那種(有爭過,但說了一次東西夠用就好之後,我就沒再問過)
但其實從小,心裡也覺得不舒服,但好像又不能怎樣
現在當媽媽,遇到大寶跟二寶(都是可以打扮的女孩兒)
能用的東西,當然我繼續讓二寶用
但像衣服,有髒汙或者鬆掉那種,基本上,我就不會給二寶穿
鞋子的話,看底部和外部還可以,我就重新刷超乾淨給二寶
不想讓二寶從小就有種好像只能用姐姐剩下的東西
但是我婆婆在我育嬰時(顧大.二寶時),很愛在外買小孩的衣服跟鞋子
衣服買回來太大,就說以後可穿,買太小,就是二寶長大給她穿
鞋子也是,我跟老公已經帶大寶試穿OK的涼鞋和運動鞋
沒多久~婆婆又從外入入續續帶了2雙涼鞋跟1雙布鞋(但都在旁邊積灰層)
有請老公跟婆婆說,不要這樣一直買(真的很容易買大或買小)
但婆婆說,"沒關係阿~反正還有妹妹可以接著穿"
其實不喜歡婆婆這樣說~
有種二寶在這個家不被重視的感覺
更讓我對小時候只有老大才能有用新的東西權利那種厭惡感
不知道板上媽媽對這個是否有些許感觸?
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