[寶寶] 會選擇跟公婆住還是當假日父母?
有一大寶2y,二寶1m10d, 原本剛結婚時沒跟公
婆住,生了大寶後我仍要上班,公婆說要幫忙帶,想說給公婆帶也比較放心,所以公婆就
搬進來住了,婆婆除了帶小孩還煮飯作家事,讓我輕鬆很多,但是我跟公婆的教養觀念不
同,公婆又是無法溝通的人,且大寶因為公婆在的關係,我也管不動,例如小孩亂空鬧我
公公就會生氣,覺得不能讓小孩這樣哭,就把小孩帶走,所以在大寶一歲半左右時,改成
白天婆婆顧,晚上她們回家,我自己顧
但在懷二寶後期因需臥床安胎,公婆又住進來了,生二寶後每天晚上都沒得睡
飽感覺很累,沒信心上班回家後能一打二,但又很煩惱,回去上班後該如何照顧?
選擇一:繼續跟公婆住下去
如果一直跟公婆住下去,可能還要一起住三年,直到二寶上
幼稚園,我公婆感覺一直想跟我們住,可是我實在不想跟她們住,而且最重要的是小孩的
教養問題,例如公婆不願讓小孩練習自己吃飯,說將來上幼稚園就會了,喜歡餵小孩吃糖
果蛋糕等等
選擇二:當假日父母 平常在把小孩放
在公婆家給她們帶,假日接回來,至少有二天可以管小孩,但大寶現在很黏婆婆,這種方
式勢必有段哭鬧期,且平常晚上就看不到了也很捨不得 想請問有二寶又在上班的媽媽
們,妳們會怎樣選擇呢?
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