[寶寶] 新手媽媽無所適從討拍
雖然這很像無病呻吟,但我真的非常恐慌,請大家給我信心。
我一直不敢生小孩,一方面是沒把握照顧好,一方面是我覺得自己沒有內建母愛。但先生非常想要有個孩子。
總之後來懷孕順利產子後入住月中,在月中除了晚上睡覺外,我幾乎都母嬰同室,本想親餵,但一直沒奶。出院時孩子體重已降10%,緊急補了配方奶,與此同時,我的乳頭早已被女兒吸到嚴重受傷,其實她含乳正確,是因為我真的都沒奶,她有時候會生氣拉扯,總之,出院時我的內衣上血跡斑斑,剛到月中第一小時,先生趕緊去買奶粉,月中護士來做入住檢查時,看到女兒的衣服袖子上都是血,先幫忙泡了60ml配方奶給女兒,女兒5分鐘乾杯了,我好愧疚,明明她是正確含乳,我卻沒奶給她。
後來我先瓶餵,等乳頭傷口好了繼續親餵,親餵也成功,可是我真的很糟,只要連續親餵2-3次,一定受傷。真的不是我女兒含乳錯誤,醫院和月中護士都看過,是正確的,而且我兒的嘴型吞嚥和正確含乳姿勢都符合。
在月中經歷產後大出血掛急診,塞奶,追奶等事,反正一切都不是很順利但也還過的去。現在我要出月中了,我真的好害怕。我前幾天哭著跟先生說我只會餵奶,拍嗝,換尿布洗屁股和哄睡,這樣怎麼照顧小孩。先生安慰我說會這些就夠了,沒關係。
雖然先生對我很好,但我真的很害怕,當媽媽了還因為這樣上來討拍很幼稚,但是請大家告訴我怎麼做或是拍拍我好嗎?
手機排版,思路不順,內容零亂請見諒
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