[寶寶] 娘家婆家搶孫顧
目前進入36週,終於快要卸貨了,但也出現了一堆問題
懷孕中期後就一直跟老公在討論小孩出生後誰照顧的問題
因為目前家庭狀況是需要雙薪才夠,小孩勢必得交給長輩或保母照顧
原來娘家媽媽就說要幫我們照顧小孩直到上幼稚園,老公也覺得ok,也說好每個月要補貼
多少給媽媽
(但沒有請保母這麼多,娘家媽媽主動說不用給這麼多,讓我們好好存錢)
只是給娘家媽媽顧的話我們就要當假日父母,假日才把小孩帶回婆家給婆家長輩看
和娘家媽媽說好的同時,也第一時間請老公去跟婆家媽媽溝通,婆家媽媽也同意
結果現在都快足月了,婆家媽媽又有點反悔了
她希望能夠在婆家所在地附近請保母照顧,每天晚上都可以看到孫子
婆家媽媽本身還有在幫忙婆家爸爸做生意,所以無法親自顧孫,只是希望每天都可以看到
孫子
若是想把小孩放在婆家所在地顧的話又會有幾個問題
一是保母費用,二是晚上變成我要自己顧,工作跟小孩我擔心無法兼顧
請問該怎麼跟長輩溝通會比較好呢?
先謝謝大家了
--
※ 發信站: 批踢踢實業坊(ptt.cc), 來自: 114.136.14.240
※ 文章網址: https://www.ptt.cc/bbs/BabyMother/M.1461570710.A.35D.html
推
04/25 15:55, , 1F
04/25 15:55, 1F
→
04/25 15:55, , 2F
04/25 15:55, 2F
推
04/25 15:56, , 3F
04/25 15:56, 3F
推
04/25 15:56, , 4F
04/25 15:56, 4F
→
04/25 15:56, , 5F
04/25 15:56, 5F
推
04/25 15:58, , 6F
04/25 15:58, 6F
→
04/25 15:58, , 7F
04/25 15:58, 7F
推
04/25 15:59, , 8F
04/25 15:59, 8F
→
04/25 15:59, , 9F
04/25 15:59, 9F
→
04/25 15:59, , 10F
04/25 15:59, 10F
推
04/25 15:59, , 11F
04/25 15:59, 11F
→
04/25 15:59, , 12F
04/25 15:59, 12F
→
04/25 15:59, , 13F
04/25 15:59, 13F
→
04/25 16:00, , 14F
04/25 16:00, 14F
→
04/25 16:00, , 15F
04/25 16:00, 15F
噓
04/25 16:01, , 16F
04/25 16:01, 16F
→
04/25 16:01, , 17F
04/25 16:01, 17F
→
04/25 16:01, , 18F
04/25 16:01, 18F
→
04/25 16:02, , 19F
04/25 16:02, 19F
推
04/25 16:02, , 20F
04/25 16:02, 20F
推
04/25 16:02, , 21F
04/25 16:02, 21F
→
04/25 16:02, , 22F
04/25 16:02, 22F
→
04/25 16:02, , 23F
04/25 16:02, 23F
→
04/25 16:02, , 24F
04/25 16:02, 24F
→
04/25 16:02, , 25F
04/25 16:02, 25F
→
04/25 16:03, , 26F
04/25 16:03, 26F
→
04/25 16:03, , 27F
04/25 16:03, 27F
→
04/25 16:03, , 28F
04/25 16:03, 28F
推
04/25 16:08, , 29F
04/25 16:08, 29F
→
04/25 16:08, , 30F
04/25 16:08, 30F
→
04/25 16:08, , 31F
04/25 16:08, 31F
推
04/25 16:08, , 32F
04/25 16:08, 32F
→
04/25 16:08, , 33F
04/25 16:08, 33F
→
04/25 16:08, , 34F
04/25 16:08, 34F
→
04/25 16:09, , 35F
04/25 16:09, 35F
→
04/25 16:09, , 36F
04/25 16:09, 36F
推
04/25 16:12, , 37F
04/25 16:12, 37F
推
04/25 16:12, , 38F
04/25 16:12, 38F
→
04/25 16:12, , 39F
04/25 16:12, 39F
還有 109 則推文
還有 3 段內文
→
04/25 22:08, , 149F
04/25 22:08, 149F
推
04/25 22:22, , 150F
04/25 22:22, 150F
→
04/25 22:22, , 151F
04/25 22:22, 151F
推
04/25 22:24, , 152F
04/25 22:24, 152F
→
04/25 22:24, , 153F
04/25 22:24, 153F
→
04/25 22:24, , 154F
04/25 22:24, 154F
→
04/25 22:24, , 155F
04/25 22:24, 155F
→
04/25 22:31, , 156F
04/25 22:31, 156F
推
04/25 22:57, , 157F
04/25 22:57, 157F
→
04/25 22:57, , 158F
04/25 22:57, 158F
→
04/25 22:57, , 159F
04/25 22:57, 159F
→
04/25 23:20, , 160F
04/25 23:20, 160F
→
04/25 23:20, , 161F
04/25 23:20, 161F
→
04/25 23:20, , 162F
04/25 23:20, 162F
→
04/25 23:20, , 163F
04/25 23:20, 163F
→
04/25 23:20, , 164F
04/25 23:20, 164F
推
04/26 00:41, , 165F
04/26 00:41, 165F
→
04/26 00:41, , 166F
04/26 00:41, 166F
→
04/26 00:42, , 167F
04/26 00:42, 167F
→
04/26 00:42, , 168F
04/26 00:42, 168F
→
04/26 00:45, , 169F
04/26 00:45, 169F
→
04/26 01:08, , 170F
04/26 01:08, 170F
→
04/26 01:08, , 171F
04/26 01:08, 171F
推
04/26 01:21, , 172F
04/26 01:21, 172F
→
04/26 01:21, , 173F
04/26 01:21, 173F
推
04/26 03:46, , 174F
04/26 03:46, 174F
→
04/26 03:49, , 175F
04/26 03:49, 175F
→
04/26 07:32, , 176F
04/26 07:32, 176F
→
04/26 07:32, , 177F
04/26 07:32, 177F
推
04/26 10:04, , 178F
04/26 10:04, 178F
→
04/26 10:04, , 179F
04/26 10:04, 179F
→
04/26 10:04, , 180F
04/26 10:04, 180F
推
04/26 15:53, , 181F
04/26 15:53, 181F
→
04/26 15:53, , 182F
04/26 15:53, 182F
→
04/26 15:54, , 183F
04/26 15:54, 183F
推
04/26 23:43, , 184F
04/26 23:43, 184F
→
04/27 00:34, , 185F
04/27 00:34, 185F
→
04/27 00:38, , 186F
04/27 00:38, 186F
→
04/27 00:39, , 187F
04/27 00:39, 187F
→
04/27 00:39, , 188F
04/27 00:39, 188F