[寶寶] 給猶豫要不要生第二胎的爸媽
其實,我們在生完老大後,
是有打算就此收工的。
覺得一個寶包就好,可以有比較多的經濟資源、
小孩可以擁有不被分享的愛。
隨著大寶年紀增長,我開始有些動搖,
她感覺喜歡玩伴、一個人似乎孤單了點,
我變得不那麼堅持,但先生還是傾向這樣就好,
就在我們還來不及正式討論,
且預防措施都有的情況下,
二寶來了,跟姐姐差了三歲。
然後,我隨即明白,
這是老天安排最美的意外。
從弟弟還在肚子裡,姐姐馬上明白這是怎麼一回事,
她拿著嬰兒期的安撫巾要送給弟弟、
會搔我的肚皮說要跟他玩咕嘰。
弟弟從月子中心回來的第一天在家,
姐姐早上守在嬰兒床邊,好多歹說才肯去保母家。
我們叮嚀她舉動要小聲,
她躡手躡腳從房門外經過。
姐姐其實是個倔強的孩子,
做錯事情挨罵從不辯駁,會站好聽訓。
有次弟弟不肯乖乖喝奶,
我佯裝生氣念他,姐姐馬上替他求情,
馬麻不要罵底迪啦,我怕他會嚇到。
我自己是獨生女,這是我永遠無法體會的手足之情。
我向來討厭聽到只要聽到老大是女兒,
就會說很好啊,姐姐會幫忙的這種論調,
孩子是大人決定要生的,
照顧的責任本來就在自己。
但我真的好希望,
他們可以一直這麼喜歡彼此、一起珍惜。
如果有正在考慮要不要生二寶的父母,
經濟上過得去,生活壓力也還可以,
那這篇就是催生文,
看著孩子小小的互動,絕對值回票價。
但也有告狀的時候啦(汗)
這時候媽媽就要自我安慰看開一點(誤)
題外話,弟弟對姐姐的愛也很直接,
大人綵衣娛親就只希望小傢伙笑,
都不見得收到回饋,
姐姐隨便走兩步、哼個走音的耳歌,
弟弟就會笑到肚子顫抖、擲地有聲。
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