[寶寶] 選擇托嬰中心而不找保母的原因
不知道選擇托嬰中心而不找保母的各位當初是為了什麼原因呢?
前幾天上來詢問有關托嬰中心和寶寶生病頻率的事,這幾天想想,托嬰中心孩子多群聚感染和感染管控的難度,確實是增加了托嬰中心寶寶生病的機率,當然如果個別寶寶的抵抗力不同,也是有不同的特例,但總體而言,確實問到的托嬰中心寶寶生病頻率是比較高的。
但為什麼我還是找托嬰中心呢?當初不找保母而找托嬰中心的最主要原因,不是發展刺激多那些,而是..
我很怕寶寶生命中愛其他人的媽媽甚於愛我這位媽媽(他未來的老婆不算),也許有點自私吧,但我覺得寶寶最愛媽媽這何嘗不是對寶寶也好的事?因為寶寶生命中大部分是要跟媽媽一起過生活的吧,如果很愛這位保母,卻不能生活在一起了,不是很難過嗎?
想起帶我長大的保姆,我兩三歲前都跟他同住,只有假日非常不甘願的回家(聽見爸媽來接會躲起來,被發現後拖出去時大哭),後來長時間住家裡了,還記得自己為保姆送給我的空香水瓶子穿上衣服,怕它著涼,小心翼翼放進抽屜盒子中,睡覺時抱著娃娃偷偷掉淚。好想念好想念保姆,卻不能在他身邊了。
我好怕這樣的心情也是把孩子送保姆後,他長大後會有的心情。也許是我比較敏感,但寶寶如果也是敏感的孩子呢?這樣的機率即使微小,仍叫我不敢冒險。雖然我也不會送全日托,會天天帶他回家,我還是很怕白天的精華時間,寶寶跟保姆最親最愛,我在孩子心中比不上保姆。
我好為難,好希望有對寶寶身心發展都最好的選擇。
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