[寶寶] 會希望別人教導自己孩子嗎?
好友的大兒子N
之前是白天讓婆婆照顧 晚上媽媽帶
今年上幼稚園大班 晚上&假日媽媽照顧
爸爸在教導上比較溺愛且沉默
昨天跟好友們聚會 我先生在玩具區看顧N
同空間有另一兄弟檔(年紀看起來都比N大)
3人在同桌玩積木
我先生觀察到 N趁兄弟檔的弟弟彎下身撿積木時
用手肘敲弟弟的頭 弟弟看起來是生氣 但以為N是不小心
我先生也以為是N不小心敲到
後來兄弟檔的積木較多 N沒有多的積木可玩時
N生氣地將積木從弟弟頭上丟下 並挑釁地說"要玩都給你"
我先生才發現敲頭舉動是N故意的
連忙將N拉離玩具區 但沒有責罵或糾正N
先生希望我將此事告知好友
不是事後翻舊帳 而是觀察N平常與同齡小孩互動
我也如實跟好友說..
好友希望以後遇到此事 能直接糾正小孩
我也覺得應該當下就糾正小孩行為 而不是事後才說
若是你 能容許好友當下糾正自己孩子嗎?
就我觀察 N滿聰明的 的確不喜歡跟同齡小孩玩樂
因為其他好友的小孩邀他一同玩 他都不願意
跟他說話 有時也會蹦出驚人之語
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