[懷孕] 這應該是正常的擔心吧?!
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不知道各位媽媽在懷孕後期是不是也像我一樣很多過度緊張
現在是36W+6 預產期4/20
其實在我34W產檢"前"
醫生都說如果我在不好好休息(工作關係要走動跟提東西)
可能38W前寶寶就會提前退房
跟先生討論後決定35W開始休假
假單都送好交接事項都處理好在公司當閒人時
34W產檢醫生就說...
"有休息有差喔!寶寶大了400克,可以撐過38W生了"
是好消息沒錯...
但一直被娘家的鄰居或朋友說太早放產假都沒動到會很難生
所謂難生到底有多難生
很多人一直跟我講超級痛阿什麼的...
讓我很害怕也很緊張(本身是怕痛的人)
又怕吃全餐(家人不允許開刀,堅持要自然產)
雖然我本身也覺得自然產比較好
可是又擔心我撐不過去
剖腹產又怕產後傷口照顧不好或者更痛
一整個很矛盾跟糾結>"<
再加上我們是年輕爸媽先有後婚
先生才剛退伍初入社會沒有積蓄
婆家在高雄
我們都在台北工作所以住娘家
由於我房間沒有冷氣
最近家人說小孩要出生需要裝冷氣
要一筆費用
生產也是要費用
小孩用品除了衣服跟床已經準備好之外
其他一樣都沒準備(也不知道準備什麼)
先生薪水不穩定
我也因為待產能幫忙到的不多
一整個很煩很煩
現在又煩惱要不要打無(好貴阿...一針8500)
陣痛到底有多痛
如果我開始陣痛該怎麼辦
寶寶的東西還有沒有缺什麼
我真的能當個好媽媽嗎
到底要當全職媽媽還是休息完馬上工作
(前公司直接離職了,公司問題,即便沒有懷孕還是會離職)
生完小孩聽說工作都不好找,而且如果要餵母乳該怎麼辦
還有很多問題一直在腦海裡跑來跑去不得而解
常常半夜想著想著
就睡不著了...
就像這時間點還醒著一樣
還會莫名的好想哭好挫敗到底該怎麼辦
最近還會突然屁股很痛(應該是屁股吧?)
下腹部也會痛一下痛一下
屁股兩側也痛痛的(感覺是骨頭沒有伸展的那種痛)
應該只是久坐或久站的關係吧?!
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謝謝大家的關心跟意見
其實我在懷孕前本身就有點焦慮症
也都有在看醫生跟吃藥
直到懷孕立馬停藥
我娘家也是比較保守的家庭
如果自然產不出來就會怪妳不運動才會這樣
但我相信如果真的醫生判定吃全餐
也不會有人反對的
看大家的留言真的莫名堅強了
謝謝你們
這裡好溫暖
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