[寶寶] 原來...小孩不太需要媽媽...
男寶11個月多,我留職停薪照顧他,由於老公的假跟一般人比較不一樣,所以我過年是2/4-初二在娘家、初二以後在婆家,長時間離開家小孩難免適應新環境睡不好,我都有努力哄,也像以往在家裡時哄的方式抱抱,但他還是會哭鬧,這時媽媽或婆婆就會想幫忙而把小孩抱走,結果哄沒多久就睡著了,不論是下午睡午覺或晚上睡前奶喝完的哄睡或半夜醒來的哄睡,我幾乎都哄不太成功,都是媽媽和婆婆把小孩哄睡,我都告訴自己不要想太多,但其實內心的信心一點一點在剝落...到今天我哭了...我這11個月每天的陪伴到底算什麼...為什麼非每天照顧他的人做得到的事情我댊o個媽媽做不到...小孩是不是根本不愛我...?(之前也有過我出去一天小孩請媽媽或婆婆幫忙顧,但小孩完全不會找我)大家不是都說小孩一定會需要、會愛自己的媽媽嗎?為什麼會這樣......我做錯了什麼...?
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