[寶寶] 公婆ㄧ直想帶大寶回去
大寶從小到大幾乎都是我自已ㄧ個人帶大的
在月子中心待滿一個月後就回娘家
因為先生被派至大陸,所以等大寶前半年的預防針打完就跟著ㄧ起在那生活
等大寶要打預防針時再回台灣,有時候會在娘家住2~3個月再去大陸
所以大寶(2y9m)跟娘家爸媽比較熟
最近快生二寶了,公婆問了好幾次能不能在我生妹妹時他們把大寶帶回北部玩(我在南部),已經拒絕很多次了,不過他們還是ㄧ直問
我拒絕的原因是:
1.大寶從出生都我自已帶,突然的離開我ㄧ個多月我覺得會讓他感覺焦慮
2.2y9m的他已經很會表達和思考了,我問他爺爺奶奶想在媽媽生時帶他上去住他願意嗎?結果大寶說他不要,看不到媽媽他會哭,他想留在身邊照顧我
3.妹妹剛出生,不想讓大寶覺得因為有妹妹他就得和我分開
4.大寶現處於容易鬧脾氣階段,我不認為從沒帶過小孩的公婆能處理的很好,加上大寶睡覺只認我
雖然娘家人可能不能幫我帶到小孩,之後是一打二,但我寧願累點也不想讓大寶在公婆家失望,哭著找媽媽,所以我ㄧ直拒絕我公婆
不知道我的決定和想法是不是正確的呢?感覺公婆已經不太開心了~
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