[寶寶] 兩寶的難處
各位好,這問題已經困擾我快兩周了,所以想請有經驗的版友指教
大寶目前2y6m 小寶1m20d
大寶是母乳寶寶喝到1y10m懷二寶3m時斷奶,從小到大都是媽媽哄睡(和爸爸分房)
所以有得選擇的時候他的首選絕對是媽媽...
原本以為我在月子中心時,有急訓爸爸陪睡,可惜一出月子中心大寶又回復非媽媽不可
現在問題來了,我們家小寶在夜裡時非常會喝奶,最常2hr討奶,有時候1hr就討奶
我們為了避免干擾大寶的作息,所以小寶是和爸爸睡,我和大寶睡(先陪睡後再陪小寶)
可是在夜裡,爸爸發現小寶討奶,我在過去餵的時候小寶早已氣急敗壞
喝奶也生氣,容易造成吐奶或是更難喝完奶後睡好
而我在餵的時候也無法保持心情輕鬆,因為很擔心大寶會突然檢查看我再不在
然後哭著喊媽媽
這陣子已經有和他不斷地教育,弟弟餓了媽媽不在就是去餵奶,所以你要等一下喔
但成效還是沒有發揮的很理想
我很苦惱,因為這樣我不斷地在更換房間,雖然當媽後就是比較淺眠
可是這樣更睡不好,因為不斷地在觀察兩個孩子的需求
然後就心情會很阿雜,有時候半夜小寶因為生氣想喝奶又把奶頭吐掉一邊大哭的時候
我真的理智線會斷掉> <
有時候正好要哄睡大寶的時候,小寶哭了,大寶的作息又會延後
請問有同樣的類似情況的媽媽能給我點意見嗎,謝謝
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