[寶寶] 與婆婆帶小孩方式不同
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必須承認發這篇是來討拍的
跟隊友是假日夫妻,女兒今天滿40d
做月子第21天就到婆家做月子
至今在隊友家也住了19天
(在婆家做月子,婆婆只煮給我吃,其餘的我都自己來)
預計下禮拜就回娘家了
小孩在我上班後給娘家媽媽帶
假日才帶回婆家
老公的兄弟不是離婚小孩跟媽媽
就是沒結婚
所以我女兒出生,婆婆的喜悅好像是第一個孫子出生一樣,我知道我婆婆很疼,但就上次
奶粉事件,帶小孩的方式不同
事件一
因為隊友剛下班,明天中午必須去參加喜宴後,還要再上班
婆婆想說隊友要早起,要給隊友睡飽點,跟我說女兒晚上跟她睡。
其實我不是很喜歡女兒跟婆婆睡
但想說下禮拜要回娘家了,她沒辦法每天看小孩,所以我同意今晚女兒跟她睡
就在剛剛我在客廳抓我女兒大約幾點會起來喝奶
婆婆:妹妹會餓,就算她在睡覺也是要泡奶給她喝
我:當妹妹在睡覺沒有哭,就不要吵她起來喝奶,讓妹妹睡覺,等她哭要討奶喝再泡
婆婆看著老公回我:跟妳說都說不通
我:………
事件二
女兒出院時
婆婆跟隊友買了"紅嬰口服液"及葡萄糖
說要讓女兒泡水喝,可去胎毒
我說我出院上衛教,醫院說小孩六個月以前可以不用喝水
結果一樣又被隊友跟婆婆說,"跟妳說都說不通"
早在跟隊友交往時,我就打定,一但有小孩也絕不給婆婆帶,雖然她不只一次表示說她想
帶,但我都裝沒聽到
不想給婆婆帶的原因如下
1.婆婆吃檳榔而且是不停口的(一次讓我在女兒的紗布衣上發現檳榔汁,另一次是在女兒
的臉上)
2.衛生習慣不好也沒有每天洗澡
3.親戚的小孩生病,她居然餵三角矸感冒藥水,要是我女兒萬一生病她是不是也會亂餵成
藥
因為沒住在一起不想打壞關係,
所以很多事我會忍住不回嘴
但自己還是會不高興…
請問版上的媽媽們
萬一你們跟婆婆因為教養方式不同
你們是如何跟婆婆溝通
讓她接受我們的做法
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