[寶寶] 等聽懂「人話」教才有意義?(文長)
文長且重點有點亂….
寶寶剛滿1Y,從吃副食品以來,都是坐在餐椅用餐
雖偶有小哭鬧情形,但通常轉移注意力(給她玩湯匙碗、喝水、先吃水果)
大致上都還算ok,如果吃超過2/3碗或用餐超過半小時
此時她不吃我就不會堅持,就讓她下餐椅了
平常托嬰下午3:00用餐,下一餐就是晚上7:00我餵(副食品1碗)
但周一起我開始煮晚餐,所以就是爸爸餵
但很奇怪也很恰巧,寶寶吃一點後就開始不爽大哭
我接手&那些轉移注意力的東西全都沒用,而且哭的很慘的那種
但下餐椅就沒事,不過她整個晚上情緒就變的很易崩潰
我的想法
她哭時我會不兇但嚴肅念她
並且讓她坐在餐椅繼續哭5分鐘看是否能平靜,但結論是no
所以我直接放她下餐椅,當然也不會再餵,不想讓她吃定這哭這招有效
我認為她懂我在兇什麼,(因為有時罵她她會扁嘴、一些拍手小指令她懂)
就算現在不懂,也讓她無形養成好習慣
但老公認為
她那麼小,根本聽不懂我們在說什麼,寶寶不懂我念她放她哭vs不吃飯之間的關聯
要教她念懲罰她,應該是要等她會說人話(ex.1.5歲後),才有意義
我現在這樣的堅持,除了達到我所謂的規矩,剩下什麼都沒有(ex.寶寶照哭鬧…)
並反問我:如果這樣下去在她營養不良的前提下
我是否還該堅持我的原則(ex.不在餐椅以外地區用餐)
撇開放任教育不談
育兒一路走來,和托嬰的媽媽們及同事們分享
發現許多的文章/版友經驗,套在現實生活不一定適用
所以大家幾乎都是採隨性(個性氣質)但不硬性的教育
有些寶寶你就是怎麼訓練,他就是比你還硬
難道要不睡不吃也要堅持規矩累死彼此嗎?
那是要多大,我才能夠讓「堅持原則」變成是有意義的教導
而非對牛彈琴兩敗俱傷?
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