[月子] 第二胎住月中時,怎麼做才不忽略大寶?
離二寶的預產期剩不到兩個月,最近都在擔憂很黏我的大寶到時候該怎麼辦。(黏的情況
:在家我到哪跟到哪,還會在廁所門口等我、沒看到我會一直媽媽媽媽喊、看到我出門會
哭會要跟、睡覺時間只有看到我才安心才肯睡,不然會依心情歡和哭鬧,甚至熬到半夜一
點因為累昏才睡...)
大寶目前快一歲七個月,出生開始就是我全職自己帶,一個月大概回台北公婆家兩次,近
期的平日我媽如果有空一週會抽ㄧ或兩個半天來我家陪大寶。
等第二胎生了以後,會先到月中住28天,這段期間我該怎麼安頓大寶,比較不會讓她生氣
吃醋或故意疏離我呢?
1.專心養身和顧二寶,大寶我媽顧且不用天天來甚至不用來,老公晚上陪我然後週末陪大
寶(我媽建議)
2.大寶讓公婆留台北顧一個月(我婆建議)
3.大寶白天來月中,晚上跟外婆或爸爸回家(我老公建議)
4.大寶和爸爸來月中過夜,白天外婆帶回家顧(我覺得比較好的方法,但老公怕我太累不
建議)
請問如果是妳,會選擇怎麼做呢?謝謝!
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※ 編輯: k123321o (118.166.86.182), 08/30/2015 13:36:06
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