[寶寶] 請問大家的選擇是
昨天老公忽然跟我說，公司要外派他去高雄工作（我們住台北）
老公還沒跟我說，就在婆婆公公還有我在的時候就說了
他跟婆婆說，等他在那安頓好以後要帶我跟寶寶過去
想問大家
如果是你，你會跟老公一起去
還是自己留在婆家呢？
我不想住在婆家，老公之前也說等月子做完要到外面找房子住
剛剛好有機會可以去高雄
老公覺得對我比較好（因為我本身無法跟婆婆相處...）
老公也給我其他選擇
像是留在台北但是我搬出去住，帶寶寶回婆家
老公在高雄
之後育嬰假休完回去上班
或是我去高雄但寶寶留在台北，假休完回台北上班
但是其實我想跟老公在一起啊！
工作再找就有，我也不怕我失業（我的工作性質是只要想做，到處都缺）
老公說如果我跟寶寶去高雄可以不用工作，把寶寶帶好就好（因為外派大概2年就結束）
其實我沒想過要當全職媽媽
還沒心理準備
但又覺得我的寶寶成長過程有我陪他會不一樣
而且真的很珍貴
想請問大家，會怎樣選擇呢？
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我也不愛，之前老公外派到國外，覺得自己快死了
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我也覺得ㄧ家人不能分開
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因為老公跟寶寶現在是除了我姐姐以外唯一的親人了......我不想失去跟他們相處的時間
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婆婆在台北沒有要去～
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※ 編輯: ntmy64219 (101.13.241.41), 08/18/2015 10:17:52
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