[寶寶] 有同是警眷的全職媽媽嗎?
當然很多媽媽的另一半工作都很辛苦
但身為警眷好想來找同病(?)相憐的媽媽取暖
真的覺得警察上班時間好長又很不正常
除非放假,平日根本很難幫到什麼忙
老公今天上17-03
昨天上19-07但下班前又有車禍要跑(交通隊)拖了一個多小時,回來也只能趕快洗澡睡覺
我們自己租屋,婆家娘家都在外縣市
我是無後援的全職媽媽
租屋處只有一房一廳,老公回來要睡覺
我和嬰兒趕快讓出房間(但嬰兒平時也都很早起啦並沒有影響到他的作息)
自己帶他出門散散步 吃早餐
回家後餵副食品,放著玩ㄧ下,抱著嬰兒在客廳睡回籠覺(不能進房會吵到爸爸,偏偏嬰
兒只睡大床,或我手上,不睡嬰兒床、推車等其他地方)
醒來後餵個奶,再帶出門
通常揹巾揹著搭公車去書局、銀行郵局、超市賣場、百貨公司等等
或是帶去上瑜珈課、爬爬課(因為在家會吵到爸爸都盡量帶出門)
回家後如果爸爸醒了就換他去睡客廳,嬰兒就可以進房睡覺
然後老公悄悄去上班,我再繼續單打獨鬥直到嬰兒8點床上躺平
我才能吃晚餐,洗奶瓶,洗衣服,整理滿地被嬰兒丟下的玩具,擦個地板
有餘力可能再煮個副食品,但通常都是像現在這樣躺著滑手機完全不想動
明天老公的班是13-23,凌晨才下班我看大概也只能睡到上班前起床了
然後我還是要繼續單打獨鬥到晚上
有時候真的覺得好累,而且偽單親的感覺好寂寞啊XD
雖然有認識很多媽媽朋友,但是也不會每天見面啊~
大多時候還是ㄧ個人面對嬰兒
雖然嬰兒真的很可愛,也開始會跟媽媽互動了
可是很多時候我都是把他放在遊戲墊上讓他自已玩
我在旁邊看著他發呆
有時候覺得很有罪惡感,可是常常提不起勁
覺得自己好像個很不盡責的母親
有時甚至會後悔嫁給警察,如果另一半每天都能回家睡覺
至少還能陪小孩玩ㄧ下或哄睡啊~
但我知道比我辛苦的媽媽很多,好歹我是ㄧ打ㄧ完全不敢想像有二寶會怎樣
抒發完了,我還是會認命繼續撐下去的XD
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