[懷孕] 該怎麼幫忙老婆?
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最近這個問題讓我們夫妻倆討論、思考很久,總是ㄧ直再繞迴圈,老婆說來版上問看看吧
。(文長)
我們夫妻倆都很喜歡小朋友,所以當老婆拿兩條線的驗孕棒給我看的時候,
我不敢相信這是真的(怕自己不能生)
馬上幫老婆預約時間去檢查。
沒想到這一個禮拜,老婆本來開心雀躍的心情開始低落,她告訴我,她在猶豫要不要生寶
寶
她的原因是:
1. 我們分隔兩地,她不希望孕期都獨自ㄧ人(我們都在國外,她在工作,我在學校半工
半讀,短期內還不會畢業,我們之間的聚離不可能通勤,每個月能見面1-2次已經很多了
)
2. 我們還在辦理移民的程序,還需要好ㄧ段時間,萬一中間出了什麼問題,會不會影響
孩子。
想生的理由是我們都很喜歡小朋友,也有年紀了,再不生就會變成高齡產婦。 經濟上沒
有問題,家人也都支持。
雖然還沒有心跳,但畢竟是生命。(沒有任何偷吃那類的問題,但是我們有在避孕,所以
寶寶來的時候我們覺得就是上天的安排要讓我們有孩子)
我很希望老婆把寶寶生下來,我告訴老婆我有空一定去陪她。
但是今天和老婆通完電話之後,聽到她哭之後我覺得自己不應該這樣勉強她,比起寶寶,
我更在意的是她的感受,她說的都對,考量點也對。但是她說她也不想拿掉寶寶,因為她
覺得那是生命,她不想墮胎。但是她又不想要自己一個人,她說這是讓她覺得最痛苦的點
(我今天聽到她說最近都不舒服,會反胃乾嘔,我真的很心疼,希望可以在她旁邊)再加
上她最近換新工作,她也擔心寶寶和她自己的心理狀況。
我到底應該做怎麼樣的決定,才是最好的,或是有什麼我能做的嗎?(希望老婆快樂)
謝謝妳們看完。祝大家有個美好的一天
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