[寶寶] 和娘家媽媽的教養衝突
想說趁著暑假期間
帶著大寶(2y3m)弟弟(3m)回娘家渡假
沒想到卻是一連串惡夢的開始...
大寶算是個好哥哥
弟弟哭了會幫忙哄 也會陪弟弟玩
只是對於我要分心照顧弟弟還不能適應
早上我在餵弟弟喝奶時
大寶吵著要我幫他組樂高玩具
我請他等一下 我在餵奶沒空
大寶一概不接受 越哭越大聲
我請媽媽幫我餵一下弟弟
我要和大寶好好溝通溝通
媽媽就很不高興的說
妳這樣他就得逞的啊!
妳看,他變成很討厭的那種小孩了
接著媽媽一把搶下大寶手中的玩具
把他高高抱起直接抓走
大寶更是哭到歇斯底里大暴走
後來我有點不高興 請媽媽幫我餵奶
直接把大寶抱上樓
我先幫他擦淚擦汗 讓他冷靜下來
然後告訴他我很愛他
但是我必須要餵弟弟喝奶
他要學會在一旁等待
最後請他複述一次"我要等待"
於是我們才下樓
在走出房間時
他竟然輕聲跟我說"謝謝媽媽~"
下樓後,我請媽媽把弟弟給我繼續餵
然後大寶就坐在一旁靜靜的等待
中途有問我一次"好了沒?"
我說還沒,你要再等一等
於是他又再安靜的等我餵完
事件落幕後 我娘的臉色一直不好看
我也覺得心情大受影響
我這樣做 真的錯了嗎?
我和弟弟都是在這樣的打罵教育下長大
所以家對我們來說是充裕但疏離的
我想要從我開始 扭轉這樣的局面
我想要在我耐性所及的範圍內
耐心的教育我的孩子 教他是與非
而不是更高壓的壓制
我這樣真的錯了嗎?
我和媽媽的職業都是小學老師
她對教育也有一套自己的想法
而我也有自己的理想想實現
看著她那種不屑的神情 我好受傷
我想問問版上比我更有經驗的媽媽們
遇到這樣類似的問題
妳們怎麼教孩子呢?
我該打包行李回家了,唉
還是回自己的小窩自由自在~
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