[寶寶] 媽媽被需要的虛榮感....@@
謝謝大家的開解 我想的確真的是我不成熟
把對公婆的私人情緒帶進教養中而不自知
感謝大家的智慧 我要向大家學習的地方很多
再次感謝 我會試著努力讓自己圓融一點
不要讓寶寶學到我的自私@@
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昨天老公弄寶寶和爺爺奶奶視訊
寶寶因為想睡了 吵著要我泡奶
奶奶就在視訊另一段說 你回來奶奶泡給你喝
寶寶回說 媽媽泡就好了
我一整個心情大好 笑臉回說 媽媽愛你
但是老公在旁 很不高興
問我 幹嘛這樣
還說 以後他也這樣讓我感覺是甚麼感覺
是甚麼感覺??是身為媽媽的虛榮感和被需要的驕傲嗎
但老公認為 我這樣是要引導孩子比較 討厭爺爺奶奶
真要引導他討厭 我就直接在沒人時教他
不要爺爺奶奶 討厭爺爺奶奶就好了 幹嘛這樣迂迴
我不喜歡他們一副要把孩子搶走的姿態
也不喜歡他們每次試圖要把孩子留在家裡的話語
但是 我還沒到教唆小孩子厭惡它們長輩的地步
只是我這一次失策了 這樣虛榮心情應該留在心裡就好
不要表現出來才對..............@@
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